"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Birthday email

bladeux

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Is sending an happy birthday email a good thing or a bad thing?

I mean the good part would be that you remembered the day of her birthday which means you listenned to her while she talked and you didn't forget.

But is it an AFC move?

thanks for advice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Çloud¤$trider

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Its always better to talk up close.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Why would saying Happy Birthday in anyway be AFC?....Id call her or tell her in person...but if you cant for some reason email her....its much better than doing nothing.
 

DJ4Real

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Being kind, isn't the problem. It's cool to be kind sometimes. The problem with a typical AFC is they try to convince women how "sweet" they are by being tooooooooooo kind.
 
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