Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Birthday email

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bladeux

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Is sending an happy birthday email a good thing or a bad thing?

I mean the good part would be that you remembered the day of her birthday which means you listenned to her while she talked and you didn't forget.

But is it an AFC move?

thanks for advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Çloud¤$trider

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Its always better to talk up close.
 
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Why would saying Happy Birthday in anyway be AFC?....Id call her or tell her in person...but if you cant for some reason email her....its much better than doing nothing.
 
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Being kind, isn't the problem. It's cool to be kind sometimes. The problem with a typical AFC is they try to convince women how "sweet" they are by being tooooooooooo kind.
 
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