"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Birthday email

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bladeux

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Is sending an happy birthday email a good thing or a bad thing?

I mean the good part would be that you remembered the day of her birthday which means you listenned to her while she talked and you didn't forget.

But is it an AFC move?

thanks for advice
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its always better to talk up close.
 
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Why would saying Happy Birthday in anyway be AFC?....Id call her or tell her in person...but if you cant for some reason email her....its much better than doing nothing.
 
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Being kind, isn't the problem. It's cool to be kind sometimes. The problem with a typical AFC is they try to convince women how "sweet" they are by being tooooooooooo kind.
 
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