"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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danro

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I'm dating a girl and we are getting very serious and want to start having sex. The problem is her parents are very strict about this kind of stuff. How should we approach her parents?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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have you ever watched the "that 70s show" episode where Eric and Donna tell Red (Eric's father) that they're responsible adults to make their own decisions and to have sex.

Red says "oh? well then since you're BOTH responsible adults... you BOTH should go tell Donna's father also."

so it takes them a while to get the guts to do it. eventually they tell HER father in the middle of the episode during the morning or so in the kitchen.

at the end of the episode its night and Eric is still in the kitchen with her father scared to move.

it's a funny episode... i guess you have to watch it.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Don't tell her parents. It's quite obvious that you guys want to be responsible. That's quite enough. It's probably better if her parents don't know. Specialy if they are strict. And it really won't solve anything.

First and foremost, use condoms. Just buy them. If you don't know how to use them then look inside the box and then practice.

Check out planned parenthood. I think itshttp://www.plannedparenthood.com

I don't know the exact laws wich probably vary state to state, but they will give you all the info you need about birth control including cheap morning after pills. Get one and keep it on hand.

If your girl is old enough to be sexually active she should also be going to the gynocologist. Tell her to tell her mom she needs to go. Simple as that.

She can discuss birthcontrol with her doctor and it should remain confidental (though maybe there are laws conerning this?). Then all you have to do is figure out how to pay for the presrciption. Depending on what she gets it is relatively cheep.

edit: This made me horny How pregnancy happens animation
 

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that animation thing is slightly arousing...
 
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