"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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danro

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I'm dating a girl and we are getting very serious and want to start having sex. The problem is her parents are very strict about this kind of stuff. How should we approach her parents?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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have you ever watched the "that 70s show" episode where Eric and Donna tell Red (Eric's father) that they're responsible adults to make their own decisions and to have sex.

Red says "oh? well then since you're BOTH responsible adults... you BOTH should go tell Donna's father also."

so it takes them a while to get the guts to do it. eventually they tell HER father in the middle of the episode during the morning or so in the kitchen.

at the end of the episode its night and Eric is still in the kitchen with her father scared to move.

it's a funny episode... i guess you have to watch it.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Don't tell her parents. It's quite obvious that you guys want to be responsible. That's quite enough. It's probably better if her parents don't know. Specialy if they are strict. And it really won't solve anything.

First and foremost, use condoms. Just buy them. If you don't know how to use them then look inside the box and then practice.

Check out planned parenthood. I think itshttp://www.plannedparenthood.com

I don't know the exact laws wich probably vary state to state, but they will give you all the info you need about birth control including cheap morning after pills. Get one and keep it on hand.

If your girl is old enough to be sexually active she should also be going to the gynocologist. Tell her to tell her mom she needs to go. Simple as that.

She can discuss birthcontrol with her doctor and it should remain confidental (though maybe there are laws conerning this?). Then all you have to do is figure out how to pay for the presrciption. Depending on what she gets it is relatively cheep.

edit: This made me horny How pregnancy happens animation
 

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that animation thing is slightly arousing...
 
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