"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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binge sex/therapeutic sex

Heretolearn

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how many of you have done this? Had sex because 'why the hell shouldn't you'

* Several women I know have done this as reactions to trauma/mental issues. They go on a massive sex binge.

I feel it temporarily distracts them from their ****ty FEELINGS about their lives. Like a drug.

How common is this? Would you date someone like this? How would you know?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joekerr31

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lots of women are like this. they are called low-quality women.

use them for a quick f*ck if you want, but don't ever look at women like this as a long term investment.

a lot of women use sex for attention, its like men who spend money on a woman to get in her pants. these women are the female AFC and they go through life wondering why they can never find a good man.
 

Hitman10000

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Some chicks I qualify are either:

1. I can totally see myself being with them LTR/marriage = Physical AND Intellectual attraction

2. I can somewhat see myself being with them LTR, but I might pass them up if there is a much better offer = Intellectual attraction

3. Same as above, the difference is that intellectual attraction weighs more than physical, I just hope the pretty girl has a personality to keep me afloat = Physical attraction

I only go for girls that I can see myself with, other chicks that I can't I try to avoid even though they may be attractive to me or they represent drama that I don't need.
 
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