"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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binge sex/therapeutic sex

Heretolearn

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how many of you have done this? Had sex because 'why the hell shouldn't you'

* Several women I know have done this as reactions to trauma/mental issues. They go on a massive sex binge.

I feel it temporarily distracts them from their ****ty FEELINGS about their lives. Like a drug.

How common is this? Would you date someone like this? How would you know?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joekerr31

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lots of women are like this. they are called low-quality women.

use them for a quick f*ck if you want, but don't ever look at women like this as a long term investment.

a lot of women use sex for attention, its like men who spend money on a woman to get in her pants. these women are the female AFC and they go through life wondering why they can never find a good man.
 

Hitman10000

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Some chicks I qualify are either:

1. I can totally see myself being with them LTR/marriage = Physical AND Intellectual attraction

2. I can somewhat see myself being with them LTR, but I might pass them up if there is a much better offer = Intellectual attraction

3. Same as above, the difference is that intellectual attraction weighs more than physical, I just hope the pretty girl has a personality to keep me afloat = Physical attraction

I only go for girls that I can see myself with, other chicks that I can't I try to avoid even though they may be attractive to me or they represent drama that I don't need.
 
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