"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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binge sex/therapeutic sex

Heretolearn

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how many of you have done this? Had sex because 'why the hell shouldn't you'

* Several women I know have done this as reactions to trauma/mental issues. They go on a massive sex binge.

I feel it temporarily distracts them from their ****ty FEELINGS about their lives. Like a drug.

How common is this? Would you date someone like this? How would you know?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joekerr31

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lots of women are like this. they are called low-quality women.

use them for a quick f*ck if you want, but don't ever look at women like this as a long term investment.

a lot of women use sex for attention, its like men who spend money on a woman to get in her pants. these women are the female AFC and they go through life wondering why they can never find a good man.
 

Hitman10000

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Some chicks I qualify are either:

1. I can totally see myself being with them LTR/marriage = Physical AND Intellectual attraction

2. I can somewhat see myself being with them LTR, but I might pass them up if there is a much better offer = Intellectual attraction

3. Same as above, the difference is that intellectual attraction weighs more than physical, I just hope the pretty girl has a personality to keep me afloat = Physical attraction

I only go for girls that I can see myself with, other chicks that I can't I try to avoid even though they may be attractive to me or they represent drama that I don't need.
 
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