"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bill Maher on Feminism (Youtube)

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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great find! bill maher often annoys me, but i give him props, he's his own man.

and as per the video you just posted, excellent commentary by bill. he's got the alpha DJ attitude if you ask me.

he's totally unplugged from the matrix.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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great clip as well.

im amazed bill maher isn't a raging alcoholic given that he sees reality for what it is and is surrounded by people who are idiots on a regular basis.
 

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Re:

DJDamage said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uw9Q6GTEPYw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8C-IyOpESeE

Sommers (who is ironiclly also an old school feminist) and Bill Mahr are mostly spot on. While Michael Moore is such a big AFC vagina and Sandra Berhard is a lesbian who thinks women are superior to men.
DJDamge,

For he most part, I'm not a fan at all of Bill Maher, but he does make some valid points.....but listening to the others was down right painful.......really painful.
 

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Dude is genius.
I loved the cat metaphor, Phucking A! :wave:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michael Moore really is a huge pvssy...and I've never even seen a doc of his! I agree entirely with Maher
 
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