"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To be honest, I'm surprised those photos did so well. Your girls are fine, but the photos aren't that great. Since that site is supposed to be about rating the photos and not the actual women, that is.
Seems like the site operates like the real world: Hot women get a free pass ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just ran a friend of one of my former plates on photofaggot. She scored 98% attractive, 76% smart, 65% trustworthy. A bunch of comments like "I would date them".

Only thing is, she is a transgender escort who jumps from provider to provider to jetset around the world. :D:D:D
Opinions of photos don't mean ****. Like and dislike whatever you want.
 

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I just ran a friend of one of my former plates on photofaggot. She scored 98% attractive, 76% smart, 65% trustworthy. A bunch of comments like "I would date them".

Only thing is, she is a transgender escort who jumps from provider to provider to jetset around the world. :D:D:D
Opinions of photos don't mean ****. Like and dislike whatever you want.
In that case, why not tell us what your last girlfriend rated?
 

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Anyhow, guys, it's really simple:

1) I'm using Photofeeler (a bunch of random people like you) as a standardized rating system. The opinion of one SS member equals the opinion of one PF member.
2) My goal is to find women and photos that rate 100/100/100. Maybe your goal is different.
3) I like skinny, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, Eastern Eurpoean looking women with small breasts. That is my type. Photofeeler tells me my type is popular among others.
4) I feel that showing photos of hot women who I meet and get to pose are worth sharing, even if that offends you personally (you wuss).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I say let the man be happy and do as he pleases, is the whole photo rating a bit weird in my opinion. Yes. But don't we all do **** that would have us deemed weird by others. The ONE thing I do find ridiculous is the constant back and forth. How do grown successful men have the time and much less the effort to argue about this.
The ego is quite fragile indeed
 

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@sazc forgot to add that, while guru1000's girls are WAY hotter than my women, that women NEVER LOVED ME and USED me!!!

But she's not biased.


Winner! Ignoramus jackass of the year who can't read the other 7 pages.

For all of you armchair critics: instead of saying my girls aren't that hot and every other member's girl are, show us your girls.
Bro bro bro. No need to get mad. I am merely pointing out that you were doing this exact same thing 5 years ago when I was on the forum.

It seems you have not grown as a man at all during that time. And that is not a personal attack. I messed up royally recently in my relationships.

As for posting pics? I am really into Asian women. I married one and recently had a kid with one. My wife I give a solid 8.5, and the mom I give a solid 8.8. She is pretty young and has a very exotic look to her, also very petite at 100 pounds (my wife is about 115 pounds) so some may like that, and some may not.

Yes I am yellow fever crew.
 

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I just ran a friend of one of my former plates on photofaggot. She scored 98% attractive, 76% smart, 65% trustworthy. A bunch of comments like "I would date them".

Only thing is, she is a transgender escort who jumps from provider to provider to jetset around the world. :D:D:D
Opinions of photos don't mean ****. Like and dislike whatever you want.
Haha too funny. Nice job.
 

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Anyhow, guys, it's really simple:

1) I'm using Photofeeler (a bunch of random people like you) as a standardized rating system. The opinion of one SS member equals the opinion of one PF member.
2) My goal is to find women and photos that rate 100/100/100. Maybe your goal is different.
3) I like skinny, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, Eastern Eurpoean looking women with small breasts. That is my type. Photofeeler tells me my type is popular among others.
4) I feel that showing photos of hot women who I meet and get to pose are worth sharing, even if that offends you personally (you wuss).
The thing is, you seem obsessed with all of this. As in you are REALLY into the numbers, the %s, the particulars of how it all works.

That is autism at its finest bro.
 

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3) I like skinny, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, Eastern Eurpoean looking women with small breasts. That is my type. Photofeeler tells me my type is popular among others.
And THAT is ALL GOOD!

Stop with the bashing of people who disagree with the look. If these r females that get ur d1ck hard, then post there pics and say "Look what I have on tap this week, This is the look that I am sooooo into. I am thuh-rilled I get to photograph her this week, im working on
DJ-ing her into my bed" and be all happy about that.

People disagree with you on even the minuscule level and you get simply ugly. Not a mature or good look for gramps.....
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol, u lookin for the subliminal text in my last message? I know you are!
 

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The new model met me last September, the day I first kissed my favorite model, who (later) confessed to falling for me that very moment (with the three Alphas).

At first the new model was like "F*ck that b!tch, you deserve better" (she didn't know her personally), but when I asked her to describe what she remembered from that day we met last fall, she said "...Caroline was all over you... and after you left I told her that you both had amazing chemistry and that she should date you... but I think I'm prettier!". I couldn't get much better social proof than that. No wonder she eagerly showed up for our first date within 5 days of my getting her number (she confirmed the date in her very first text).

This was a special opportunity. Girls need to feel they are stealing you away from one of her peers, and that is extremely hard to pull off when you are dealing with gorgeous 21-22 year old women.
 

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Here I opine on the real ratings for my women of this month:

Girl 1: 9
Girl 2: 8.25
Girl 3: 7.75

The following (internet picture) would be my idea of a 10:

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_7425_zps9tkxyjzt.jpeg.html

Any dissent? Feel free to post counterpictures.

(Sry Neil, but I find this thread interesting)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SteR, you have good taste. So does @bradd80, @Ronaldo7, @BeTheChange, among many others here.

Guys, give me your ratings on the four girls in Post 145. I'm interested to see where our forum is at in the context of taste.
 

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Not sure it'd ever be possible to get a consensus on a 10
I'm sure it's impossible. I don't believe in 10s anyway, they're just an ideal standard, an imaginary bar.
Even if you saw someone nearly perfect, you'd have to leave a tenth of a point or two off in case you saw someone better.
 

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I don't believe in 10s anyway,
the surest thing any "ten" can do to take herself right out of the "ten" category is to start talking.

Tens are like sexual fantasies, they can only exist in the mind when it's possible to ignore a sh!tton of variables.
 

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There is an easy solution.

Show SS photos of hotter women who you "pulled" (your penis while fantasizing about). With bigger boobs and butts as you prefer. I'll pay $2 to have the photos rated. Then you can prove you have hotter women. 3 members provided photos rated 100 in Attractive, so it's possible.

Of course, this likely proves you are a couple of jackasses blowing smoke up your own butts, because you don't have women rated 100 and never will.
Umm...Nah, I'm good. I don't need people on the internet to validate how attractive the woman I pull are. Your posts get so old, Neil. You are in your late 40s acting like you aren't these bishes sugar daddies. And you are an undercover racist, so me posting pics of any woman NOT white or under 23 or actually has a developed body makes me.."lose". Your bragging is entertaining though, so no intentional shade thrown.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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