"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Biggest Turnoffs

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Over time you come to know yourself and realize what kind of thing is a turn on and what turns you off.

For me, there are a few things that women do that they think are incredibly sexy which I find quite the opposite:

- Fake eye colour lenses, fake hair, nails etc
- Expensive tat (handbags etc)
- Arrogant/entitled attitude
- Too many selfies
- Thousands of Instagram followers
- Head buried in her phone 24/7

All of these things just make women look trashy and unattractive, in my opinion.

Maybe it's a personal thing, but I really find all of that plastic, fakeness, arrogance and materialism on display repulsive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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- Fake eye colour lenses, fake hair, nails etc
- Expensive tat (handbags etc)
- Arrogant/entitled attitude
- Too many selfies
- Thousands of Instagram followers
- Head buried in her phone 24/7
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and if I may add:

- Having lots of guys friends (turnoff because this either means she likes orbiters, or it means she's an idiot for thinking those guys all like her platonically)
- no sense of humor of her own. Lot of women never had to develop a nice sense of humor because everyone liked them already based upon their good looks. A girl who never makes me laugh will eventually be boring me

edit: - women who are into masculin sports like motor racing or boxing. It's ok if other men like this, but I don't. I like my girls feminine

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Fake over-sized pornstar-like boobs.
 
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and if I may add:

- Having lots of guys friends (turnoff because this either means she likes orbiters, or it means she's an idiot for thinking those guys all like her platonically)
- no sense of humor of her own. Lot of women never had to develop a nice sense of humor because everyone liked them already based upon their good looks. A girl who never makes me laugh will eventually be boring me

edit: - women who are into masculin sports like motor racing or boxing. It's ok if other men like this, but I don't. I like my girls feminine
Regarding the orbiters, I think women tend to know the deal but they like to pretend they don't in order to use these guys.

Are we really supposed to believe that grown up women don't know what a dik is? I don't like that either, because I see it as another form of fakery.

There are women that dress like sluuts in order to harvest orbiters and there are women that like to pretend that they're so innocent and pure that they've never even heard of a peanuss.
 

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besides physical things like certain faces, fat, and no ass/fake tits, it's be

stupid
smells bad
big tattoos
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bad or unfeminine manners.

Had an ex once who farted louder than anything I heard before as she got comfortable. Huge farts where the first thing I heard from her in the morning after she got up. That was unbearable and not really sexy I can tell you.
 

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Turn offs in a girl for me, beyond physical characteristics:

- Neediness
- Entitlement
- No sense of humour / takes themselves too seriously
- Excessive validation-seeking behaviour
- Can't hold a conversation
- Lack of intelligence
- Opens up too much too fast about their personal problems
- Brags or mentions how many men are into her
- Lack of enthusiasm
- No ambition
- Non-submissive

Those are just off the top of my head
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can tolerate a lot of things, but just cant cope with women who fart. Mood and attraction killer!
What if it was the hottest chick you ever saw who was standing naked in front of you as you sat on the couch and she bent over and farted right in your face?

Would you ravage her and teach her a lesson or would you tell her to get the fvck out?
 

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I can tolerate a lot of things, but just cant cope with women who fart. Mood and attraction killer!
What about puzzy farts while your banging her? (just discovered there is a name for that....queef.....never heard that before. there you go...)

Women who scrape your c0ck with their teeth when giving bl0wjobs
....catching your foreskin in their braces....
 

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During a LTR, these are traits that forced me to say goodbye to one of my exes:

- Nagging
- Controlling (Everything has to be HER way or drama ensures)
- Non-submissive
- Aggressive
- Bad-tempered
- Emo & Negative personality
- Confrontational
- Easy to get triggered
- Drama queen

Later on, I discovered she developed these traits thanks to her father being a submissive and weak beta to her mother, a controlling, non-submissive, demanding and aggressive woman who has NO respect whatsover for her poor husband.

So, next time you plan to enter a LTR, not only you need to look for redflags at your woman, but also at her father. If he's a b!tch to his wife aka your woman's mother, chances are she's going to try to make one out of you. Everyday. For the rest of your relationship.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What about puzzy farts while your banging her? (just discovered there is a name for that....queef.....never heard that before. there you go...)



....catching your foreskin in their braces....
I dont mind queefs because its just wind pushed into the pvssy by the c0ck escaping on the in-stroke.

I was nailing this dime some years ago and suddenly I heard a disturbing loud rumble from her azzhole, followed by strong whiff of boiled eggs. I lost my boner on the spot and she was so embarrassed she went bright red and just sat up in bed covering her face with her hands.
 

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What about puzzy farts while your banging her? (just discovered there is a name for that....queef.....never heard that before. there you go...)



....catching your foreskin in their braces....
Don't have one of those thank God...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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