"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Her job as a bartender is not hired to intervene and try to protect patrons. that's a bouncers job. Her job was simply to serve drinks or to flag people who are too drunk. This little Polish girl intervenved between the cop and a customer the cop had punched . In other words she stepped up to the plate and tried to protect someone else who was getting beat up. She was definately wrong as this guy was 250lbs and she is 115lbs.
I would not raise my hand to help any drunk guys in a bar getting into trouble. But a girl who simply is trying to earn a living by doing her job and attacked in this situation is very different.
I am saying none of the GUYS in the bar thought to protect her. Not even thinking to attack the guy from behind to their advantage. they just let the girl get her ass kicked while they watched. I'm pretty sure since the guy was so drunk he was not as strong as he may have been sober because it seems there was suprisingly "little"damage done to her. But I bet she is thinking really highly of American men now.
If she f*cked off everything would of been peachy.ricorico said:Big,
Her job as a bartender is not hired to intervene and try to protect patrons. that's a bouncers job. Her job was simply to serve drinks or to flag people who are too drunk. This little Polish girl intervenved between the cop and a customer the cop had punched . In other words she stepped up to the plate and tried to protect someone else who was getting beat up. She was definately wrong as this guy was 250lbs and she is 115lbs.
I would not raise my hand to help any drunk guys in a bar getting into trouble. But a girl who simply is trying to earn a living by doing her job and attacked in this situation is very different.
I am saying none of the GUYS in the bar thought to protect her. Not even thinking to attack the guy from behind to their advantage. they just let the girl get her ass kicked while they watched. I'm pretty sure since the guy was so drunk he was not as strong as he may have been sober because it seems there was suprisingly "little"damage done to her. But I bet she is thinking really highly of American men now.
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She's in charge of the bar. That includes whatever is in her power to maintain order. In this case, that SHOULD have been calling for help. She unwisely stepped in and got pounded. I know you all are feeling a little USA envy, but try not to be as obvious as sparky about it.ricorico said:Her job as a bartender is not hired to ...
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You Homo perverted devil!!! Why is your penis getting "hard" due to a man's anus? BYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTCH!!!!!!!!!John_Galt said:Maybe you could bend over and I could stick my rock hard c*ck into your wet pink virgin anus.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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