"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Her job as a bartender is not hired to intervene and try to protect patrons. that's a bouncers job. Her job was simply to serve drinks or to flag people who are too drunk. This little Polish girl intervenved between the cop and a customer the cop had punched . In other words she stepped up to the plate and tried to protect someone else who was getting beat up. She was definately wrong as this guy was 250lbs and she is 115lbs.
I would not raise my hand to help any drunk guys in a bar getting into trouble. But a girl who simply is trying to earn a living by doing her job and attacked in this situation is very different.
I am saying none of the GUYS in the bar thought to protect her. Not even thinking to attack the guy from behind to their advantage. they just let the girl get her ass kicked while they watched. I'm pretty sure since the guy was so drunk he was not as strong as he may have been sober because it seems there was suprisingly "little"damage done to her. But I bet she is thinking really highly of American men now.
If she f*cked off everything would of been peachy.ricorico said:Big,
Her job as a bartender is not hired to intervene and try to protect patrons. that's a bouncers job. Her job was simply to serve drinks or to flag people who are too drunk. This little Polish girl intervenved between the cop and a customer the cop had punched . In other words she stepped up to the plate and tried to protect someone else who was getting beat up. She was definately wrong as this guy was 250lbs and she is 115lbs.
I would not raise my hand to help any drunk guys in a bar getting into trouble. But a girl who simply is trying to earn a living by doing her job and attacked in this situation is very different.
I am saying none of the GUYS in the bar thought to protect her. Not even thinking to attack the guy from behind to their advantage. they just let the girl get her ass kicked while they watched. I'm pretty sure since the guy was so drunk he was not as strong as he may have been sober because it seems there was suprisingly "little"damage done to her. But I bet she is thinking really highly of American men now.
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She's in charge of the bar. That includes whatever is in her power to maintain order. In this case, that SHOULD have been calling for help. She unwisely stepped in and got pounded. I know you all are feeling a little USA envy, but try not to be as obvious as sparky about it.ricorico said:Her job as a bartender is not hired to ...
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You Homo perverted devil!!! Why is your penis getting "hard" due to a man's anus? BYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYTCH!!!!!!!!!John_Galt said:Maybe you could bend over and I could stick my rock hard c*ck into your wet pink virgin anus.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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