Cowards watch as female bartender gets beat up by a guy twice her size. Wait for video to load.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
djSlvt
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She's a pretty girl.
Good news here is that cop will be a pretty piece of ass once he goes to prison. It seems that he's a total AFC, and that's a tool, especially in prison. You have to be pretty insecure to kick a girl's ass. I can see myself kicking that black chick from other video, but this pretty white lady who serves drinks, that's just a sin.
Good news here is that cop will be a pretty piece of ass once he goes to prison. It seems that he's a total AFC, and that's a tool, especially in prison. You have to be pretty insecure to kick a girl's ass. I can see myself kicking that black chick from other video, but this pretty white lady who serves drinks, that's just a sin.
Did you notice how these 2 guys stood at the bar and did nothing? Unbelievable. Noone stepped in until that 250lb cop seemed to have lost steam. That's when 2 old guys(who probably walked in from outside) tried to help. Those guys that watched it should get and ass kicking themselves.
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You guys posting these videos have never been in those types of situations.
I have. In one situation, I was playing street basketball with some guys I know. Just regular 2-on-2 games. We were finishing up a game when these strangers pull up and say they want to get next. They make a bet to play to 10 over a six-pack of beer. It's the two strangers versus two guys I know from the courts. They two strangers lose and get pissed off. One of them goes to his car and gets a handgun and knife. They start pointing it at people and fire two shots in the air, threatening to kill us all.
The dude I know from the courts ran to his house across the street and came back with two uzis, one in either arm. Real uzis, no joke. I froze up.
You guys who just post these videos have never been in such a situation. Stop talking about what you would do or not. Most of you have never been in a real fight in your entire lives. Shut up. You would not do crap.
I froze and just stood there with these guys about to shoot each other. It was scary as hell. The basketball courts were crowded and a lot of guys, a lot bigger and stronger than me ran like little girls. I was one of the few people still standing on the court, almost in between the guys, frozen. I wish I had ran because anything could have happened that day.
I suggest you stop posting these videos and calling people cowards because you have no idea what the heck you're talking about.
I have. In one situation, I was playing street basketball with some guys I know. Just regular 2-on-2 games. We were finishing up a game when these strangers pull up and say they want to get next. They make a bet to play to 10 over a six-pack of beer. It's the two strangers versus two guys I know from the courts. They two strangers lose and get pissed off. One of them goes to his car and gets a handgun and knife. They start pointing it at people and fire two shots in the air, threatening to kill us all.
The dude I know from the courts ran to his house across the street and came back with two uzis, one in either arm. Real uzis, no joke. I froze up.
You guys who just post these videos have never been in such a situation. Stop talking about what you would do or not. Most of you have never been in a real fight in your entire lives. Shut up. You would not do crap.
I froze and just stood there with these guys about to shoot each other. It was scary as hell. The basketball courts were crowded and a lot of guys, a lot bigger and stronger than me ran like little girls. I was one of the few people still standing on the court, almost in between the guys, frozen. I wish I had ran because anything could have happened that day.
I suggest you stop posting these videos and calling people cowards because you have no idea what the heck you're talking about.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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And, why would anyone who is not involved intervene? I mean, if I was in that bar, I would pretend to not even see it happening.
You get involved you may end up in jail. Don't try to play "captain-save-a-hoe" or save someone who may not deserve being saved. Why risk your life for something that has nothing to do with you? Like Skel said, you don't even know what's going on. All you see is a fight. Maybe it was her fault that she is getting battered.
I've also been in a situation where I tried to "take the law into my own hands" so-to-speak and ended up in court because of it. Yes, the situation is messed up, but I would rather not get involved. Anyone with half a brain would agree.
Let me guess, if you saw a guy beating his "girlfriend" in a public place, you would try to save her?
You get involved you may end up in jail. Don't try to play "captain-save-a-hoe" or save someone who may not deserve being saved. Why risk your life for something that has nothing to do with you? Like Skel said, you don't even know what's going on. All you see is a fight. Maybe it was her fault that she is getting battered.
I've also been in a situation where I tried to "take the law into my own hands" so-to-speak and ended up in court because of it. Yes, the situation is messed up, but I would rather not get involved. Anyone with half a brain would agree.
Let me guess, if you saw a guy beating his "girlfriend" in a public place, you would try to save her?
You are comparing apples to oranges. These videos show 1 helpless person getting beat up while others watched. Noone had an uzzie or a gun or anything. Besides, you'd just sit there and watch a girl get the crap beat out of her instead of getting behind the guy and beating him with a barstool.
What would you say if a bunch of guys stood by and watched your mother,sister,girlfriend get the sh*t kicked out of her because they did'nt know the "whole" story. In both the video's the stories are obvious.So that's not even an excuse.
Men aren't men anymore. Just a bunch of wimps. A couple of months ago this crazy guy went off at one of the girls at the supermarket for some dumb ass reason. He just started going after her and jumped over the counter where they have the coldcuts.
The girl was obviously scared,while her male coworkers and people just stood there. I jumped in after him and held him back in a chokehold. He could have had a gun. But I approached him from behind.The bastard had the nerve to start yelling like I was the one who started it and accusing me of trying to kill him. Some people who just got there thought I started it and looked at me like I ewas some sort of bully.
. After it was over the girl I was with told me I should have minded my own biz. I told her if she ever gets attacked I hope everyone around her thinks like that.. The girl at the counter said thank you. Even the guys behind the counter grudgingly said thanks. You know so many guys brag about going to the gym,boxing ect,being the alpha male. But when it comes down to it, they act worst then women.
I'm not crazy enough to try to go after someone openly crazy enough to pull out a gun in full view. taht's just crazy. But if there are no weapons there is a power in numbers. If not, you have to fight real dirty and use whatever object you can to physically hurt them. My motto, even if I get my ass kicked, I won't make it easy for anyone to do it . If I have to fight dirty to protect myself or an innocent person,so be it.
What would you say if a bunch of guys stood by and watched your mother,sister,girlfriend get the sh*t kicked out of her because they did'nt know the "whole" story. In both the video's the stories are obvious.So that's not even an excuse.
Men aren't men anymore. Just a bunch of wimps. A couple of months ago this crazy guy went off at one of the girls at the supermarket for some dumb ass reason. He just started going after her and jumped over the counter where they have the coldcuts.
The girl was obviously scared,while her male coworkers and people just stood there. I jumped in after him and held him back in a chokehold. He could have had a gun. But I approached him from behind.The bastard had the nerve to start yelling like I was the one who started it and accusing me of trying to kill him. Some people who just got there thought I started it and looked at me like I ewas some sort of bully.
. After it was over the girl I was with told me I should have minded my own biz. I told her if she ever gets attacked I hope everyone around her thinks like that.. The girl at the counter said thank you. Even the guys behind the counter grudgingly said thanks. You know so many guys brag about going to the gym,boxing ect,being the alpha male. But when it comes down to it, they act worst then women.
I'm not crazy enough to try to go after someone openly crazy enough to pull out a gun in full view. taht's just crazy. But if there are no weapons there is a power in numbers. If not, you have to fight real dirty and use whatever object you can to physically hurt them. My motto, even if I get my ass kicked, I won't make it easy for anyone to do it . If I have to fight dirty to protect myself or an innocent person,so be it.
howardalex
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never justified to beat up a girl but you're right, 99% of guys would leave or pretend not to see it happening...I'd be very wary, maybe intervene 'cos I know I can handle myself in a fight but still, that guy's 250lb...~attrACTION~ said:
djSlvt
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I would intervine.
Do white people play basketball? Do they even own uzies? Isn't an uzi a black gun? AK-74 is more like it, or a shotgun. Sure, if you're in a black neighborhood, who cares. But if you're in a nicer white area, and crap like this happens (which it almost never don't), you'd intervine. You don't have to be big, just carry a lot of balls, no trash talking, go for the chin.
Do white people play basketball? Do they even own uzies? Isn't an uzi a black gun? AK-74 is more like it, or a shotgun. Sure, if you're in a black neighborhood, who cares. But if you're in a nicer white area, and crap like this happens (which it almost never don't), you'd intervine. You don't have to be big, just carry a lot of balls, no trash talking, go for the chin.
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Looks like you get what I'm saying then.ricorico said:
The situation can easily turn against you. Just like you said, most people are scared of fights and have never been in them. People generally avoid confrontations.
A while ago my car broke down and I had to take the bus. The bus driver missed my stop by about half a mile, and it was clearly his fault. I confronted him directly for his mistake. Everyone on the bus look at me scared as if I was going to kill someone, and I'm not even a big guy. People are afraid of confrontations. You as much as raise your voice and people start getting scared.
Besides, in America, the laws are such that if you lend a hand to someone in certain situations, you can end up getting a worse penalty than the culprit. I think it's great that you care so much to help people, but just be very careful.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
howardalex
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djSlvt said:I would intervine.
yesdjSlvt said:
http://www.asparis.net/isst/Images/VB_basketball_team_photos 004.jpg
yes, check this guydjSlvt said:
http://www.rainforth4congress.org/Me-with-uzi-jpg-cropped.jpg
no...it's israelidjSlvt said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uzi_submachine_gun
welcome to my block list, dumb assdjSlvt said:
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It's called the bystander syndrome, or something such. Basically, the more people are around, the less likely someone will intervene. It's been demonstrated again and again by psychologists all over the world.
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The problem is that we, as American's, think too much, and behave as cattle our whole lives. People simply don't know how to react in situations like this. A bunch of sh1t runs through their minds, and they freeze up like a deer in headlights because no one is there to instruct them on what to do.
Don't rock the boat.
Don't rock the boat.
Well,
they have done studies like that on tv with hidden cameras and each time it happens a woman is more likely to intervene than a man. I think it's getting pretty normal for people to be such cowards. I remember once I was talking to a girlfriend who stubbornly did'nt want to hear what I had to say,so I backed her against the wall,none agressively as she screamed at me. These two black guys passing by came up to grab me. Thank God she quickly told them she was alright. Even though I was'nt doing anything wrong, I actually respected the fact those guys at least reacted.
they have done studies like that on tv with hidden cameras and each time it happens a woman is more likely to intervene than a man. I think it's getting pretty normal for people to be such cowards. I remember once I was talking to a girlfriend who stubbornly did'nt want to hear what I had to say,so I backed her against the wall,none agressively as she screamed at me. These two black guys passing by came up to grab me. Thank God she quickly told them she was alright. Even though I was'nt doing anything wrong, I actually respected the fact those guys at least reacted.
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Would you brainiacs quite making this sound like an American thing. God knows that I give American broads a hard time (they deserve it :yes: ), but people are people. None of you (American or not) would get up and take a guy like that on. Many of you would mess your pants. The real world is very different from pecking at a keyboard 24/7. If it was me I would get the heck out of that place. I wouldn't even call the cops. Cops protect their own. They would be sure to put me on their "you did not make a complete stop" list for the rest of my life.
She appears to be an Eastern European immigrant (probably Polish). Those women get worse treatment at home. Being a bartender is tough. You gotta be prepared for getting your a$$ kicked at some stage of your career. There is a lot worse in this world. Kids getting abused by Mommy or daycare workers is something that happens way too often. I can't stand when innocent kids get shafted in life, but adults have choices they can make.
She appears to be an Eastern European immigrant (probably Polish). Those women get worse treatment at home. Being a bartender is tough. You gotta be prepared for getting your a$$ kicked at some stage of your career. There is a lot worse in this world. Kids getting abused by Mommy or daycare workers is something that happens way too often. I can't stand when innocent kids get shafted in life, but adults have choices they can make.
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I blame the feminists.ricorico said:
This is what happens when you emasculate men. Most turn into cowards. And others simly don't really care to help out these b!tchy women we have today. (This is where I fit in).
Fvcking feminists. This is Karma at work gentlemen.
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I would simply leave and find a new bar.~attrACTION~ said:
Yup. no chivalry here. This is also what I was thinking.
I haven't, but I know someone who has. I'm not repeating their stupid mistake.
FVCK NO! Not my problem. Why is she with him anyway? Pretty stupid if you ask me. She gets whats coming for her mistake and I won't be one to take some of the hurt off her shoulders. Dumb broads.
Only way I would stand up in a situation like that is if its a close friend or relative. And by close friend, I mean like family.
Shiftkey
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I've never been in a situation like this. It's easy to say I'd step in, and I'd like to think I would, but I can see where some of you are coming from. I can understand people getting scared, or acting indifferent. To be honest, I want to encounter a situation like this just to test myself. I have years of boxing and martial arts training, and I'm in good shape. I like to think I have a good sense of morals. I really want to see what my character is like when push comes to shove.
By the way, noone knew he was a cop till after the incident. He was dressed like a regular guy cause he was off-duty.
I sent this and the video where the guy got beat up waiting in line by a black guy to 3 friends. 2 white one from Honduras. My white friends said they would not intervene.My friend from Honduras could not believe the guys stood there when the bartender was getting beat up.
But he thought it was even more amazing that so many white guys stood by while a black guy beat up on another white guy. He said if a black guy had beat up a latino in line, every latino in the joint would have jumped his ass.So a black guy no matter how big would know better than to pull that sh*T with a resaturant full of latinos.
On the same token, he said if there was 1 latino in a black area beating up on a black guy, he better expect other black guys around to jump him too. That's probably why latinos and blacks fight each other so much ,because they both won't take ****..
The lesson in this. If you are a minority, you can easily beat and rob a white person in full public view and no-one will stop you because they have lost their balls and they're scared.. That's a lot easier than going into black or latins neighborhoods and trying to do the same thing cause you'll get your head blown off. Once minorities figure this out there won't have to be any black on black crime. Just beat up the white guy when you need cash. Don't worry,other white folks will just stand by.Rob them too if you have time. They won't cause trouble.Why are white men more cowardly than blacks or latinos?
I sent this and the video where the guy got beat up waiting in line by a black guy to 3 friends. 2 white one from Honduras. My white friends said they would not intervene.My friend from Honduras could not believe the guys stood there when the bartender was getting beat up.
But he thought it was even more amazing that so many white guys stood by while a black guy beat up on another white guy. He said if a black guy had beat up a latino in line, every latino in the joint would have jumped his ass.So a black guy no matter how big would know better than to pull that sh*T with a resaturant full of latinos.
On the same token, he said if there was 1 latino in a black area beating up on a black guy, he better expect other black guys around to jump him too. That's probably why latinos and blacks fight each other so much ,because they both won't take ****..
The lesson in this. If you are a minority, you can easily beat and rob a white person in full public view and no-one will stop you because they have lost their balls and they're scared.. That's a lot easier than going into black or latins neighborhoods and trying to do the same thing cause you'll get your head blown off. Once minorities figure this out there won't have to be any black on black crime. Just beat up the white guy when you need cash. Don't worry,other white folks will just stand by.Rob them too if you have time. They won't cause trouble.Why are white men more cowardly than blacks or latinos?
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It all boils down to conditioning. The white man will stand there and "think", and the black or latino man will "act". The white man (and this is broad generalization) was probably raised in the suburbs, and growing up, the worst thing he had to deal with was being called silly names or getting a black eye from a fistfight. The black or latino man (again, broad generalization) was likely raised inner-city, and grew up around crime and violence. So when a white man is in situations like this, he'll start thinking, "Wow, I'd really like to do something, but I might get hurt, or killed. Worse yet.... I might go to jail." because he's never been in this situation before. The black or latino man will simply react, because he's probably been there before.ricorico said:
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