"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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big time mixed messages...like wow

redbullfbu

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ok so me and this 8.5 had a little thing at the end of last year (school year) we never did **** but it died off when i went on vacation for half the summer. she's not exactly some A+ on the totem poll, but she's worth it (i think). anyways, every time i'm online she always talks to me, txting, all that crap. but she's like socially retarded.. everytime i ask her to hang out shes like i can't im busy it sucks etc. and you ALL know what that means... so me knowing this im like aight peace dont care but then she continues to talk to me and im thinking to myself why do you talk to me if we don't ever chill. like shes stupid and its not like she talks to me so she can have a shoulder to cry on..i throw the cf, all that crap it works decent. i even told her once, on aim, she kept talking to me i was like "stfu, make up your mind, don't im me every night trying to fkn flirt over aim then be busy when i try to chill with you" (btw i only have asked her to chill a 3-4 times since we had that thing at the end of last year. so i was like "dont talk to me if you're going to be a fkn idiot" yet she keeps talking to me. i see her in school sometimes but thats about it.

in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wayword

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ATTENTION WH0RE. Look, she's just using you for attention, buddy - and the internet as a glass wall to keep everyone at arm's length because she has intimacy issues.

Look, if you meet a girl online and she doesn't want to meet up after about a month, she's got issues and is stringing you along. You're undoubtedly just one of a multitude of other guys she's doing the same thing with. If you have loads of free time to kill, fine. But, hopefully you have better options than that.
 

redbullfbu

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i didnt meet her online, lol i met her last year at school and she was all over me but shes a retard
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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redbullfbu said:
in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
haha you're funny. i liked that... that was hilarious.

advice: move on... or turn the tables and play HER instead... or punch her in her face.
 

donjuanjovi

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Michele said:
... or punch her in her face.
I'm for this one. Show that attention ***** who's boss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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