"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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big time mixed messages...like wow

redbullfbu

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ok so me and this 8.5 had a little thing at the end of last year (school year) we never did **** but it died off when i went on vacation for half the summer. she's not exactly some A+ on the totem poll, but she's worth it (i think). anyways, every time i'm online she always talks to me, txting, all that crap. but she's like socially retarded.. everytime i ask her to hang out shes like i can't im busy it sucks etc. and you ALL know what that means... so me knowing this im like aight peace dont care but then she continues to talk to me and im thinking to myself why do you talk to me if we don't ever chill. like shes stupid and its not like she talks to me so she can have a shoulder to cry on..i throw the cf, all that crap it works decent. i even told her once, on aim, she kept talking to me i was like "stfu, make up your mind, don't im me every night trying to fkn flirt over aim then be busy when i try to chill with you" (btw i only have asked her to chill a 3-4 times since we had that thing at the end of last year. so i was like "dont talk to me if you're going to be a fkn idiot" yet she keeps talking to me. i see her in school sometimes but thats about it.

in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wayword

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ATTENTION WH0RE. Look, she's just using you for attention, buddy - and the internet as a glass wall to keep everyone at arm's length because she has intimacy issues.

Look, if you meet a girl online and she doesn't want to meet up after about a month, she's got issues and is stringing you along. You're undoubtedly just one of a multitude of other guys she's doing the same thing with. If you have loads of free time to kill, fine. But, hopefully you have better options than that.
 

redbullfbu

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i didnt meet her online, lol i met her last year at school and she was all over me but shes a retard
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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redbullfbu said:
in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
haha you're funny. i liked that... that was hilarious.

advice: move on... or turn the tables and play HER instead... or punch her in her face.
 

donjuanjovi

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Michele said:
... or punch her in her face.
I'm for this one. Show that attention ***** who's boss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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