"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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big time mixed messages...like wow

redbullfbu

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ok so me and this 8.5 had a little thing at the end of last year (school year) we never did **** but it died off when i went on vacation for half the summer. she's not exactly some A+ on the totem poll, but she's worth it (i think). anyways, every time i'm online she always talks to me, txting, all that crap. but she's like socially retarded.. everytime i ask her to hang out shes like i can't im busy it sucks etc. and you ALL know what that means... so me knowing this im like aight peace dont care but then she continues to talk to me and im thinking to myself why do you talk to me if we don't ever chill. like shes stupid and its not like she talks to me so she can have a shoulder to cry on..i throw the cf, all that crap it works decent. i even told her once, on aim, she kept talking to me i was like "stfu, make up your mind, don't im me every night trying to fkn flirt over aim then be busy when i try to chill with you" (btw i only have asked her to chill a 3-4 times since we had that thing at the end of last year. so i was like "dont talk to me if you're going to be a fkn idiot" yet she keeps talking to me. i see her in school sometimes but thats about it.

in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
 

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ATTENTION WH0RE. Look, she's just using you for attention, buddy - and the internet as a glass wall to keep everyone at arm's length because she has intimacy issues.

Look, if you meet a girl online and she doesn't want to meet up after about a month, she's got issues and is stringing you along. You're undoubtedly just one of a multitude of other guys she's doing the same thing with. If you have loads of free time to kill, fine. But, hopefully you have better options than that.
 

redbullfbu

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i didnt meet her online, lol i met her last year at school and she was all over me but shes a retard
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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redbullfbu said:
in conclusion...shes a stupid girl who tries to flirt with me then appears to be busy when i try to chill with her which we all know this usually means "no" but yet she continues to flirt with me after....i wana punch her in the face... :cuss:

so any advice? greatly appreciated thanks
haha you're funny. i liked that... that was hilarious.

advice: move on... or turn the tables and play HER instead... or punch her in her face.
 

donjuanjovi

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Michele said:
... or punch her in her face.
I'm for this one. Show that attention ***** who's boss.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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