“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"Big" talk

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As opposed to "small" talk...

I went down town today. I realized my personality is really just not made to go out and meet strangers. I'm done trying to change myself. But the point of this post is a conversation two other people had next to me. An older guy and an older girl who was sitting by herself. The girl actually tried to make conversation with me before the guy talked to her, asking what I was drinking (cranberry juice), but I just gave her a 1 word answer because she was old and not hot.

The guy was telling her how he was a single father, saving money for retirement when his kids finally leave the house in a few years. He told her he had a vasectomy. He asked her if she had any kids (she didn't), or if she was ever married (no). They briefly talked about their jobs. He asked for her number and got it.

I suppose this is "big talk" as oppose to the pu$$y footing around "small talk" that leads nowhere.

Keep in mind these were older people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some practice would do you good as you are unable to catch women. You can just buy them, but you don't charm them. Start from little things, go onto big things.

And don't forget to insult me somehow in the reply LOL
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
As opposed to "small" talk...

I went down town today. I realized my personality is really just not made to go out and meet strangers. I'm done trying to change myself. But the point of this post is a conversation two other people had next to me. An older guy and an older girl who was sitting by herself. The girl actually tried to make conversation with me before the guy talked to her, asking what I was drinking (cranberry juice), but I just gave her a 1 word answer because she was old and not hot.

The guy was telling her how he was a single father, saving money for retirement when his kids finally leave the house in a few years. He told her he had a vasectomy. He asked her if she had any kids (she didn't), or if she was ever married (no). They briefly talked about their jobs. He asked for her number and got it.

I suppose this is "big talk" as oppose to the pu$$y footing around "small talk" that leads nowhere.

Keep in mind these were older people.
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I think your personality is perfect match for girls from tinder
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
As opposed to "small" talk...

I went down town today. I realized my personality is really just not made to go out and meet strangers. I'm done trying to change myself. But the point of this post is a conversation two other people had next to me. An older guy and an older girl who was sitting by herself. The girl actually tried to make conversation with me before the guy talked to her, asking what I was drinking (cranberry juice), but I just gave her a 1 word answer because she was old and not hot.

The guy was telling her how he was a single father, saving money for retirement when his kids finally leave the house in a few years. He told her he had a vasectomy. He asked her if she had any kids (she didn't), or if she was ever married (no). They briefly talked about their jobs. He asked for her number and got it.

I suppose this is "big talk" as oppose to the pu$$y footing around "small talk" that leads nowhere.

Keep in mind these were older people.
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It was still small talk.
I imagine you as a total creeper in these places where you overhear these conversations. Like someone trying to peek over the booth behind you to better eavesdrop on people's conversation. It's very creepy and borderline psychotic.
 
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Glassguy said:
It was still small talk.
I imagine you as a total creeper in these places where you overhear these conversations. Like someone trying to peek over the booth behind you to better eavesdrop on people's conversation. It's very creepy and borderline psychotic.
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No, they're sitting 2 feet away from me at the bar. I couldn't not hear them if I tried.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glassguy said:
It was still small talk.
I imagine you as a total creeper in these places where you overhear these conversations. Like someone trying to peek over the booth behind you to better eavesdrop on people's conversation. It's very creepy and borderline psychotic.
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If that's small talk, then what's big talk?
 
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Some practice would do you good as you are unable to catch women. You can just buy them, but you don't charm them. Start from little things, go onto big things.

And don't forget to insult me somehow in the reply LOL
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What is your definition of little things and big things?
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
What is your definition of little things and big things?
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Little things in this case, for you, would be responding to some conversation another person started with you.

Big things would be you handling women with minimal emotional involvement, enough to enjoy them, but not enough for to be destroyed by them. Big thing would be called a woman making a painting for you, an artwork, a woman coming to have sex and a good time with you even if her brain, her friends and her relatives all advise her against it.

You will notice big things when and if they come. You will feel them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82 said:
Little things in this case, for you, would be responding to some conversation another person started with you.

Big things would be you handling women with minimal emotional involvement, enough to enjoy them, but not enough for to be destroyed by them. Big thing would be called a woman making a painting for you, an artwork, a woman coming to have sex and a good time with you even if her brain, her friends and her relatives all advise her against it.

You will notice big things when and if they come. You will feel them.
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I did respond to the conversation. I said "cranberry juice."
 
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