"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I need some other opinions. i was dating a girl for two months and we never had sex. she gave me a lot of oral and i never did to her. i ever just fingered her. but we were getting ready to have sex for the first time when she told me the reason we were waiting was because she had herpes what should i do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well I'm assuming it's not oral herpes...:eek:

Unless you're like, SERIOUS with this girl, I suggest you LJBF her and look elsewhere. And get yourself tested, too. Who knows what you touched after you fingered her.

If for some reason you decide to stay with her, and I can't really think of a reason why you should but maybe you have one, do NOT touch her cooter again until you are SURE you will never want to have sex with another woman again. Even with no outbreak, that stuff can still be spread. It's not fatal like the other STDs, but it's still nasty stuff.
 

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id leave her. horrible thing to say i guess, but i wouldn't want to get herpes.

lesson to all guys out there - be careful who you stick your willy wanka in.
 

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oh ya, do a google image search on herpes.

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peateargriff1n11 said:
I need some other opinions. i was dating a girl for two months and we never had sex. she gave me a lot of oral and i never did to her. i ever just fingered her. but we were getting ready to have sex for the first time when she told me the reason we were waiting was because she had herpes what should i do.
what should you do? guess that depends on how much you like her. if you're planning on marrying this girl then risking the herpes might be worth it... but she'd have to be one HELL of a phenominal woman.

other than that, dump her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"was dating".

Sounds like you already made up your mind. Unless you don't like sex, move on.
 
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