"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Big Ears.....

Boricua_33015

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hey, what the hell can I do about big ears?! Im a big person, I wegh about 235 and I just turned 17. Im more stocky (or so Im told) than obese. Could be just the clothes I wear but neways, back to the ears...... Can the big ears I have be cause by me being overweight? Im also planning on doing some heavy exercise to burn fat over the next couple of months to get myself back in shape. My question is, will my ears shrink if I lose weight? If they dont, what the hell can I do about my satellite dishes? My ears are already big even when I am overweight, I cant imagine when I lose weight and my face gets skinnier how much they will pop out!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boricua_33015

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FVCK!!!! IM GONNA KILL MYSELF!!

j/k. Is it really much of a big deal when it comes to hollerin at girls?
 

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grow your hair out dude, i've got big ears, don't stop me from getting girls

you can even have your hair short, just not too military...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont do anything about it, and when someone makes a comment about them just say "all the better to hear you with" and then wink

mind you there is surgery you can get which pins back ears
 

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if you have "dumbo" type ears, there is a plastic surgery procedure that you can have done where they are "pinned back" against your head, so it looks more normal.

D
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL
if you have "dumbo" type ears, there is a plastic surgery procedure that you can have done where they are "pinned back" against your head, so it looks more normal.

D
Yeah, I had that in second grade. They still look kinda big, but they are better then before...
 

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Yeah, I had that in second grade. They still look kinda big, but they are better then before
Crazykid lets see some before and after pictures.:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You're lookin like a taxi comin' down the street with both doors open" -The Fresh Prince of Bel Air.


Dude, unless small children flee at the sight of you, you'll be fine. It's less about looks, and more about CONFIDENCE.
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Latte

Dude, unless small children flee at the sight of you, you'll be fine. It's less about looks, and more about CONFIDENCE.
that's in theory, in reality, we all go for looks, we see a nice chick, we go "hm... is that a 9 or 8..." not "wow, nice personality" :) especially first impression I meant
 

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Originally posted by Kalen
Crazykid lets see some before and after pictures.:D
Ok, can you loan me $100 for a scanner?
 
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