"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Butts?

BigT

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Maybe I'm making excuses not to approach, maybe it's an objective reality, but I'd like to get others' opinions on this.

Granted, it's been more than 2 years since I've gone to bars, much less clubs on any kind of a consistent basis, but it seems to me as if the girls are "bigger." Before, there always seemed to be SOME big girls at the club. Nowadays, it almost seems as if the majority of girls who go out are big girls.

There are definitely still tall, attractive girls worth approaching, or to continue talking to once they've approached, but it seems like their numbers are dwindling.

OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.

The prevalence of big girls: a myth or reality?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SgtSplacker

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I like big butts and I can not lie!
 

Zerro

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BigT said:
OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.
Some are, but a lot of them still won't settle for a dude who doesn't look like a bodybuilder.
 

Desdinova

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I've dated women in a variety of shapes; tall, skinny, short, fat, etc. The one thing I can tell you is women who are bigger are NOT the exception. This is a social myth. Fat women do NOT have better personalities. They are NOT more forgiving. They are NOT better in bed. They are women, and if your desire is to date a woman who is on the heavier side, you need to treat her the EXACT SAME as you would treat a woman who is thin.

The ONLY difference between a fat woman and a thin one is the fat one is more likely to be single because most men don't want to fvck a pig.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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