"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Big Butts?

BigT

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Maybe I'm making excuses not to approach, maybe it's an objective reality, but I'd like to get others' opinions on this.

Granted, it's been more than 2 years since I've gone to bars, much less clubs on any kind of a consistent basis, but it seems to me as if the girls are "bigger." Before, there always seemed to be SOME big girls at the club. Nowadays, it almost seems as if the majority of girls who go out are big girls.

There are definitely still tall, attractive girls worth approaching, or to continue talking to once they've approached, but it seems like their numbers are dwindling.

OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.

The prevalence of big girls: a myth or reality?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SgtSplacker

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I like big butts and I can not lie!
 

Zerro

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BigT said:
OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.
Some are, but a lot of them still won't settle for a dude who doesn't look like a bodybuilder.
 

Desdinova

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I've dated women in a variety of shapes; tall, skinny, short, fat, etc. The one thing I can tell you is women who are bigger are NOT the exception. This is a social myth. Fat women do NOT have better personalities. They are NOT more forgiving. They are NOT better in bed. They are women, and if your desire is to date a woman who is on the heavier side, you need to treat her the EXACT SAME as you would treat a woman who is thin.

The ONLY difference between a fat woman and a thin one is the fat one is more likely to be single because most men don't want to fvck a pig.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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