"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Big Butts?

BigT

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Maybe I'm making excuses not to approach, maybe it's an objective reality, but I'd like to get others' opinions on this.

Granted, it's been more than 2 years since I've gone to bars, much less clubs on any kind of a consistent basis, but it seems to me as if the girls are "bigger." Before, there always seemed to be SOME big girls at the club. Nowadays, it almost seems as if the majority of girls who go out are big girls.

There are definitely still tall, attractive girls worth approaching, or to continue talking to once they've approached, but it seems like their numbers are dwindling.

OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.

The prevalence of big girls: a myth or reality?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SgtSplacker

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I like big butts and I can not lie!
 

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BigT said:
OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.
Some are, but a lot of them still won't settle for a dude who doesn't look like a bodybuilder.
 

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I've dated women in a variety of shapes; tall, skinny, short, fat, etc. The one thing I can tell you is women who are bigger are NOT the exception. This is a social myth. Fat women do NOT have better personalities. They are NOT more forgiving. They are NOT better in bed. They are women, and if your desire is to date a woman who is on the heavier side, you need to treat her the EXACT SAME as you would treat a woman who is thin.

The ONLY difference between a fat woman and a thin one is the fat one is more likely to be single because most men don't want to fvck a pig.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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