"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Butts?

BigT

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Maybe I'm making excuses not to approach, maybe it's an objective reality, but I'd like to get others' opinions on this.

Granted, it's been more than 2 years since I've gone to bars, much less clubs on any kind of a consistent basis, but it seems to me as if the girls are "bigger." Before, there always seemed to be SOME big girls at the club. Nowadays, it almost seems as if the majority of girls who go out are big girls.

There are definitely still tall, attractive girls worth approaching, or to continue talking to once they've approached, but it seems like their numbers are dwindling.

OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.

The prevalence of big girls: a myth or reality?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SgtSplacker

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I like big butts and I can not lie!
 

Zerro

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BigT said:
OTOH, perhaps these girls are more forgiving of guys being overweight themselves, lol.
Some are, but a lot of them still won't settle for a dude who doesn't look like a bodybuilder.
 

Desdinova

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I've dated women in a variety of shapes; tall, skinny, short, fat, etc. The one thing I can tell you is women who are bigger are NOT the exception. This is a social myth. Fat women do NOT have better personalities. They are NOT more forgiving. They are NOT better in bed. They are women, and if your desire is to date a woman who is on the heavier side, you need to treat her the EXACT SAME as you would treat a woman who is thin.

The ONLY difference between a fat woman and a thin one is the fat one is more likely to be single because most men don't want to fvck a pig.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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