"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, there are too many bibles going around. Here is the deal:

  • I just took down the "New Age Bible"
  • The DJ Bible (By Nich Hill) is updated with all the links that were in my bible
  • Matrix is creating a new Bible for the High Schoolers
  • Nocturnal has a Mini-Bible for people who feel the real bible is too intimidating to read right now.

If a bible is not listed on there, it is NOT an official bible.

This means Dario's old HS bible, Lorenzo's old HS bible, Capi's SS bible, the other SS bible, DaVanci's thoughts, and anyone elses attempt at a Bible are not real and should not be taken accordingly. If you think a post should go into the bible, PM one of the Mods and we will think about it.

That is all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by eternal
Ok, there are too many bibles going around. Here is the deal: [...]If a bible is not listed on there, it is NOT an official bible.

[...] and anyone elses attempt at a Bible are not real and should not be taken accordingly.
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But please don't let this hard-handedness stop you guys from making compilations of posts relevant to a specific topic or topics!
 
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LOL

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Oh god, who is that keen on this site that they're making up bibles to post in?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To the Capi SS link ... I just revitalized the old links cause it's an intresting topic that is mentioned a lot. But DaVinci Library ... I said specifically in the post thats not a biblt. Just a collection of links I find or found intresting and helpful. Mainly motivating.

Glad to see this improvement.

-EDIT- I added a note into teh DaVinci Library to help you out. ;) I'm going to go back and add a link to the OFFICIAL DJ bible for newbs. K.

Can you add something Simmilar to the SS. Bible. It's too old for me to edit.
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
To the Capi /URL] ... I just revitalized the old links cause it's an intresting topic that is mentioned a lot. But [URL=http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=515442#post515442]DaVinci Library ... I said specifically in the post thats not a biblt. Just a collection of links I find or found intresting and helpful. Mainly motivating.

Glad to see this improvement.

-EDIT- I added a note into teh DaVinci Library to help you out. ;) I'm going to go back and add a link to the OFFICIAL DJ bible for newbs. K.

Can you add something Simmilar to the SS. Bible. It's too old for me to edit.
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Originally posted by eternal
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I see that the irony of this backfire doesn't escape you.

Pretty sneaky, Capi. Kudos :)
 
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