"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, there are too many bibles going around. Here is the deal:

  • I just took down the "New Age Bible"
  • The DJ Bible (By Nich Hill) is updated with all the links that were in my bible
  • Matrix is creating a new Bible for the High Schoolers
  • Nocturnal has a Mini-Bible for people who feel the real bible is too intimidating to read right now.

If a bible is not listed on there, it is NOT an official bible.

This means Dario's old HS bible, Lorenzo's old HS bible, Capi's SS bible, the other SS bible, DaVanci's thoughts, and anyone elses attempt at a Bible are not real and should not be taken accordingly. If you think a post should go into the bible, PM one of the Mods and we will think about it.

That is all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by eternal
Ok, there are too many bibles going around. Here is the deal: [...]If a bible is not listed on there, it is NOT an official bible.

[...] and anyone elses attempt at a Bible are not real and should not be taken accordingly.
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But please don't let this hard-handedness stop you guys from making compilations of posts relevant to a specific topic or topics!
 
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LOL

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Oh god, who is that keen on this site that they're making up bibles to post in?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To the Capi SS link ... I just revitalized the old links cause it's an intresting topic that is mentioned a lot. But DaVinci Library ... I said specifically in the post thats not a biblt. Just a collection of links I find or found intresting and helpful. Mainly motivating.

Glad to see this improvement.

-EDIT- I added a note into teh DaVinci Library to help you out. ;) I'm going to go back and add a link to the OFFICIAL DJ bible for newbs. K.

Can you add something Simmilar to the SS. Bible. It's too old for me to edit.
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
To the Capi /URL] ... I just revitalized the old links cause it's an intresting topic that is mentioned a lot. But [URL=http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=515442#post515442]DaVinci Library ... I said specifically in the post thats not a biblt. Just a collection of links I find or found intresting and helpful. Mainly motivating.

Glad to see this improvement.

-EDIT- I added a note into teh DaVinci Library to help you out. ;) I'm going to go back and add a link to the OFFICIAL DJ bible for newbs. K.

Can you add something Simmilar to the SS. Bible. It's too old for me to edit.
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Originally posted by eternal
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I see that the irony of this backfire doesn't escape you.

Pretty sneaky, Capi. Kudos :)
 
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