"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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toasttopper1879

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Situation is.Girl seems to be flirting,asking questions,interupting conversations,offered her phone number etc.Shes asking me if I like her hair,clothes and anything else she can think of and I think this is going fine and i,m asked by her what do I like or find desireable in a girl.I refuse to answer her question and tell her its a secret and i cant tell her cos she will know how to behave to attract me and that would be unfair.
Her answer knocks me flat.She says i may as well tell her cos she isnt trying to attract me.She then tells me about her ex and another man she likes.
Now 1 minute I feel I'm getting green light but next I'm not.
Any double meanings here or should I just leave well alone.
Your the experts for this I,m told.

cheers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blue Phoenix

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Mixed signals = Low interest level.

I'd move on, but it's up to you.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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You're all right, but forgetting one thing.

Attention wh0re+mixed singals = low interest.

Drop her like sack of dirt, because that is what she is. Don't keep her as a potential gf or even a friend. She'll do you no good either way.
 
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