"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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beyond me.

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toasttopper1879

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Situation is.Girl seems to be flirting,asking questions,interupting conversations,offered her phone number etc.Shes asking me if I like her hair,clothes and anything else she can think of and I think this is going fine and i,m asked by her what do I like or find desireable in a girl.I refuse to answer her question and tell her its a secret and i cant tell her cos she will know how to behave to attract me and that would be unfair.
Her answer knocks me flat.She says i may as well tell her cos she isnt trying to attract me.She then tells me about her ex and another man she likes.
Now 1 minute I feel I'm getting green light but next I'm not.
Any double meanings here or should I just leave well alone.
Your the experts for this I,m told.

cheers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mixed signals = Low interest level.

I'd move on, but it's up to you.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime

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You're all right, but forgetting one thing.

Attention wh0re+mixed singals = low interest.

Drop her like sack of dirt, because that is what she is. Don't keep her as a potential gf or even a friend. She'll do you no good either way.
 
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