"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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toasttopper1879

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Situation is.Girl seems to be flirting,asking questions,interupting conversations,offered her phone number etc.Shes asking me if I like her hair,clothes and anything else she can think of and I think this is going fine and i,m asked by her what do I like or find desireable in a girl.I refuse to answer her question and tell her its a secret and i cant tell her cos she will know how to behave to attract me and that would be unfair.
Her answer knocks me flat.She says i may as well tell her cos she isnt trying to attract me.She then tells me about her ex and another man she likes.
Now 1 minute I feel I'm getting green light but next I'm not.
Any double meanings here or should I just leave well alone.
Your the experts for this I,m told.

cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blue Phoenix

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Mixed signals = Low interest level.

I'd move on, but it's up to you.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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You're all right, but forgetting one thing.

Attention wh0re+mixed singals = low interest.

Drop her like sack of dirt, because that is what she is. Don't keep her as a potential gf or even a friend. She'll do you no good either way.
 
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