"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Beyond confused and help...

SoSuaveDude

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Okay so i know one-itis is deadly, and ill admit that im pretty sure ive caught it. There's this girl who originally initiated great interest in me two months ago. Things were going great, went out on a date, and got the make-out session. Slowly after the date, her interest began to fade. Now it seems that she has completely let me go. No initiated contact from her, and i haven't been contacting her either.

However, last week i did. The message was pretty flirty and she received it well. She called me hot and laughed at my jokes, but immediately after the convo, i realized that i just evolved the one-itis into an even more impenetrable state. She hasn't contacted me this week, and seems to mention another ex/guy on facebook (i know i should delete/unfriend her but i encounter her at church, and she didn't exactly do anything wrong). Quite frankly, i just want to get over her for my health and sanity sake.

Problem is: She goes to my church. I realistically see her every sunday, or atleast every other sunday. How can i truly move on if im continually met with her presence. Im pretty sure this girl is poisonous too... Whenever we're at church, she'll throw heated eye contact (3+ seconds) and virtually chase me around. But during the away periods, i never hear a utterance from her.

She is prob a player, and I most likely have this nasty one-itis due to my lack of numerous past experiences in dealing with women. I fell too quickly for this one, and i know many will say spin plates, but im just trying to stay focused on school, and this girl is constantly colliding with my attention and focus. I literally can't stop thinking about her multiple times throughout the day. Help! :eek:

im 18, shes 23, and i guess i should just be thankful i got to makeout with an older chick haha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Well, the only thing I can say is the reality of it. Which is, you had one date and you made out with her. And it was two months ago.

She's far from a big deal. Very far. You didn't date for a year. You didn't live together and break up. You went on one date and you made out.

So the only help I can offer is to remind you that you never lost the girl because you never had the girl.
 

SoSuaveDude

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Well, the only thing I can say is the reality of it. Which is, you had one date and you made out with her. And it was two months ago.

She's far from a big deal. Very far. You didn't date for a year. You didn't live together and break up. You went on one date and you made out.

So the only help I can offer is to remind you that you never lost the girl because you never had the girl.
Yeah, i fell extremely hard due to lack of experience. That's why im saying this is definitely not her fault. I just don't understand why im so attached to this woman and worshiping her in particular. It's probably because in essence she's playing the push/pull, hot/cold game on me whether she's aware of it or not. Anymore advice would be appreciated, thanks...
 

RedZone

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I used to have a similar problem. I really liked this girl who was my friends sister and after things didn't work out I still had to see her.

Mind you at least you got somewhere with this chick...I didn't even come close. Looking back I was such a big afc.

What's great about life though is we are supposed to have these moments. Nobody is meant to know how to get through these situations at first. It's just part of life, but having this experience will help you grow and learn for the next time. I know I have...I'm not a Don Juan or what I like to think of a Don Juan Draper but I'm def. closer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oscarxp25

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move on and flirt with other girls while flirting with her when she is around.. DO NOT wait for her...I did that years ago and lost many great girl opportunities and life experiences
 
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