SeymourCake
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Beware: Women are exploiting beta males on dating apps (Tinder)
- Thread starter SeymourCake
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SeymourCake
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Be alert. Be aware. Better yet, just delete your dating apps.
PeasantPlayer
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This happened to me last night I was browsing Okcupid and found this really attractive african american women, messaged her and she was like "send me 10 dollars" I was like "Why?" She replied "You'll see"
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
dustmuffin
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Why would any man with common sense send money to a stranger? See what happens....she unmatches you and moves along.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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And the fact you can get dikteased by porn without buying it and jack off on your own. Damn.
When you send the money, you get deleted. Common sense folks. Use the block feature. Or if you want, f**k with their heads by cursing at them, etc.
Case closed.
logicallefty
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wifehunter
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Is queen of ants.
MatureDJ
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You should also have reported her to OKCupid.
I'd like to hear a news report of a beta that did this that got so pi33ed off that he tracked down his woman and raped her.
Only to find it was a fat dude on the other side
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Who Dares Win
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Good to hear for every successful scum we have an afc turning into a chauvinist.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Oh, I got a couple for you.
One woman had apparently moved into the area, was thought she was hired on for a job...but turned out to be scam. She was on POF, said she doesn't believe in sex before marriage due to her religious convictions...yet...she was looking for a "roomate"to take her in (a male roomate/sucker...since online dating profile was "woman seeking men")
I kind of played with her and said, "Well, perhaps if you play your cards right...I'll let you live with me...if you agree to clean the house in a French maids outfit. " and gave her a little wink.
She ghosted. lol
Another woman, I actually thought it was just a FAKE profile...but I decided to contact this 'fake" profile anyway. She was asking for money for support, for rent and bills. She actually gave me her phone #, and I confirmed it as a local area code. LOL I tried to call her bluff by asking for the digits and it backfired...turned out she was for REAL.
She got mad at me for not calling. LOL
I think they sometimes call it "pay to play"
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LOL at some ugly slvts in the screenshot thinking they would have similar luck trying this out.
btownbuck2012
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f*cking wh0res. I can rise above a-lot of women's bad behavior and overall rude, arrogant crappy attitudes but this here really makes me angry.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
btownbuck2012
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Good point. You're probably right.