SeymourCake
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Beware: Women are exploiting beta males on dating apps (Tinder)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SeymourCake
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Be alert. Be aware. Better yet, just delete your dating apps.
PeasantPlayer
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This happened to me last night I was browsing Okcupid and found this really attractive african american women, messaged her and she was like "send me 10 dollars" I was like "Why?" She replied "You'll see"
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
dustmuffin
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Why would any man with common sense send money to a stranger? See what happens....she unmatches you and moves along.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nismo-4
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And the fact you can get dikteased by porn without buying it and jack off on your own. Damn.
When you send the money, you get deleted. Common sense folks. Use the block feature. Or if you want, f**k with their heads by cursing at them, etc.
Case closed.
logicallefty
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wifehunter
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Is queen of ants.
MatureDJ
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You should also have reported her to OKCupid.
I'd like to hear a news report of a beta that did this that got so pi33ed off that he tracked down his woman and raped her.
Only to find it was a fat dude on the other side
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who Dares Win
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Good to hear for every successful scum we have an afc turning into a chauvinist.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Oh, I got a couple for you.
One woman had apparently moved into the area, was thought she was hired on for a job...but turned out to be scam. She was on POF, said she doesn't believe in sex before marriage due to her religious convictions...yet...she was looking for a "roomate"to take her in (a male roomate/sucker...since online dating profile was "woman seeking men")
I kind of played with her and said, "Well, perhaps if you play your cards right...I'll let you live with me...if you agree to clean the house in a French maids outfit. " and gave her a little wink.
She ghosted. lol
Another woman, I actually thought it was just a FAKE profile...but I decided to contact this 'fake" profile anyway. She was asking for money for support, for rent and bills. She actually gave me her phone #, and I confirmed it as a local area code. LOL I tried to call her bluff by asking for the digits and it backfired...turned out she was for REAL.
She got mad at me for not calling. LOL
I think they sometimes call it "pay to play"
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LOL at some ugly slvts in the screenshot thinking they would have similar luck trying this out.
btownbuck2012
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f*cking wh0res. I can rise above a-lot of women's bad behavior and overall rude, arrogant crappy attitudes but this here really makes me angry.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
btownbuck2012
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Good point. You're probably right.