SeymourCake
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Beware: Women are exploiting beta males on dating apps (Tinder)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SeymourCake
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Be alert. Be aware. Better yet, just delete your dating apps.
PeasantPlayer
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This happened to me last night I was browsing Okcupid and found this really attractive african american women, messaged her and she was like "send me 10 dollars" I was like "Why?" She replied "You'll see"
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
I replied "send me 10 bucks I need to order a pizza" lol
dustmuffin
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Why would any man with common sense send money to a stranger? See what happens....she unmatches you and moves along.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nismo-4
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And the fact you can get dikteased by porn without buying it and jack off on your own. Damn.
When you send the money, you get deleted. Common sense folks. Use the block feature. Or if you want, f**k with their heads by cursing at them, etc.
Case closed.
logicallefty
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wifehunter
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Is queen of ants.
MatureDJ
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You should also have reported her to OKCupid.
I'd like to hear a news report of a beta that did this that got so pi33ed off that he tracked down his woman and raped her.
Only to find it was a fat dude on the other side
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who Dares Win
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Good to hear for every successful scum we have an afc turning into a chauvinist.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Neither is good but at least the second one doesnt damage us with his actions.
Oh, I got a couple for you.
One woman had apparently moved into the area, was thought she was hired on for a job...but turned out to be scam. She was on POF, said she doesn't believe in sex before marriage due to her religious convictions...yet...she was looking for a "roomate"to take her in (a male roomate/sucker...since online dating profile was "woman seeking men")
I kind of played with her and said, "Well, perhaps if you play your cards right...I'll let you live with me...if you agree to clean the house in a French maids outfit. " and gave her a little wink.
She ghosted. lol
Another woman, I actually thought it was just a FAKE profile...but I decided to contact this 'fake" profile anyway. She was asking for money for support, for rent and bills. She actually gave me her phone #, and I confirmed it as a local area code. LOL I tried to call her bluff by asking for the digits and it backfired...turned out she was for REAL.
She got mad at me for not calling. LOL
I think they sometimes call it "pay to play"
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LOL at some ugly slvts in the screenshot thinking they would have similar luck trying this out.
btownbuck2012
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f*cking wh0res. I can rise above a-lot of women's bad behavior and overall rude, arrogant crappy attitudes but this here really makes me angry.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
btownbuck2012
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Good point. You're probably right.