"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beware Of Date Bait

COD

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ONLINE DATING HAS IT'S FLAWS, one major one is Date Bait and every net dating site has some form of this. The are essentially 4 categories of date bait.

1) NON-MEMBERS: this is by far the most common form of membership enticements. You can post a profile & a picture WITHOUT signing up. So when you search for women in your area you get a lot of hits, but in reality less than 60% of them are current members. YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH ONES ARE MEMBERS.....so you can send them an email but the only way they can read it is if they sign up........and a lot of women don't bother to. So what you are actually looking at is non-members or former members profiles...waste of time and your money. * Some sights offer the "see who's read your email" feature.

2) FAKE EMAILS/PROFILES-some guys use various sites to gather info on you by posting phony profiles/pictures. They call this the "recon" profile. Others spam you by sending an alluring email, then redirect you to their porn site. Despite net dating sites rules for spamming, a lot of spammers do get through.

3) TOKEN DATES: both Match.com and Yahoo personals were victims of a lawsuit a few years back pertaining to date bait. Women would go out on token first dates then never heard from again, I assume for the sole purpose of getting men to re-join. These are rare instances but still exist and difficult to prove, let alone letigate.

4) EMAIL TEASERS-this is probably the second most common form. Pop-up ads, email enticements that tease you by saying stuff like "someone has emailed you, to read their email, please sign up".

THE PURPOSE IS SIMPLE......THEY WANT YOUR MONEY!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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baller1985

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yes, so dont ****ing pay for dating sites and just use myspace and facebook

how much more obvious can it be?
 
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