"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Beware Of Date Bait

COD

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ONLINE DATING HAS IT'S FLAWS, one major one is Date Bait and every net dating site has some form of this. The are essentially 4 categories of date bait.

1) NON-MEMBERS: this is by far the most common form of membership enticements. You can post a profile & a picture WITHOUT signing up. So when you search for women in your area you get a lot of hits, but in reality less than 60% of them are current members. YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH ONES ARE MEMBERS.....so you can send them an email but the only way they can read it is if they sign up........and a lot of women don't bother to. So what you are actually looking at is non-members or former members profiles...waste of time and your money. * Some sights offer the "see who's read your email" feature.

2) FAKE EMAILS/PROFILES-some guys use various sites to gather info on you by posting phony profiles/pictures. They call this the "recon" profile. Others spam you by sending an alluring email, then redirect you to their porn site. Despite net dating sites rules for spamming, a lot of spammers do get through.

3) TOKEN DATES: both Match.com and Yahoo personals were victims of a lawsuit a few years back pertaining to date bait. Women would go out on token first dates then never heard from again, I assume for the sole purpose of getting men to re-join. These are rare instances but still exist and difficult to prove, let alone letigate.

4) EMAIL TEASERS-this is probably the second most common form. Pop-up ads, email enticements that tease you by saying stuff like "someone has emailed you, to read their email, please sign up".

THE PURPOSE IS SIMPLE......THEY WANT YOUR MONEY!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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baller1985

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yes, so dont ****ing pay for dating sites and just use myspace and facebook

how much more obvious can it be?
 
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