"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beware Of Date Bait

COD

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ONLINE DATING HAS IT'S FLAWS, one major one is Date Bait and every net dating site has some form of this. The are essentially 4 categories of date bait.

1) NON-MEMBERS: this is by far the most common form of membership enticements. You can post a profile & a picture WITHOUT signing up. So when you search for women in your area you get a lot of hits, but in reality less than 60% of them are current members. YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH ONES ARE MEMBERS.....so you can send them an email but the only way they can read it is if they sign up........and a lot of women don't bother to. So what you are actually looking at is non-members or former members profiles...waste of time and your money. * Some sights offer the "see who's read your email" feature.

2) FAKE EMAILS/PROFILES-some guys use various sites to gather info on you by posting phony profiles/pictures. They call this the "recon" profile. Others spam you by sending an alluring email, then redirect you to their porn site. Despite net dating sites rules for spamming, a lot of spammers do get through.

3) TOKEN DATES: both Match.com and Yahoo personals were victims of a lawsuit a few years back pertaining to date bait. Women would go out on token first dates then never heard from again, I assume for the sole purpose of getting men to re-join. These are rare instances but still exist and difficult to prove, let alone letigate.

4) EMAIL TEASERS-this is probably the second most common form. Pop-up ads, email enticements that tease you by saying stuff like "someone has emailed you, to read their email, please sign up".

THE PURPOSE IS SIMPLE......THEY WANT YOUR MONEY!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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baller1985

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yes, so dont ****ing pay for dating sites and just use myspace and facebook

how much more obvious can it be?
 
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