"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Beware Of Date Bait

COD

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ONLINE DATING HAS IT'S FLAWS, one major one is Date Bait and every net dating site has some form of this. The are essentially 4 categories of date bait.

1) NON-MEMBERS: this is by far the most common form of membership enticements. You can post a profile & a picture WITHOUT signing up. So when you search for women in your area you get a lot of hits, but in reality less than 60% of them are current members. YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH ONES ARE MEMBERS.....so you can send them an email but the only way they can read it is if they sign up........and a lot of women don't bother to. So what you are actually looking at is non-members or former members profiles...waste of time and your money. * Some sights offer the "see who's read your email" feature.

2) FAKE EMAILS/PROFILES-some guys use various sites to gather info on you by posting phony profiles/pictures. They call this the "recon" profile. Others spam you by sending an alluring email, then redirect you to their porn site. Despite net dating sites rules for spamming, a lot of spammers do get through.

3) TOKEN DATES: both Match.com and Yahoo personals were victims of a lawsuit a few years back pertaining to date bait. Women would go out on token first dates then never heard from again, I assume for the sole purpose of getting men to re-join. These are rare instances but still exist and difficult to prove, let alone letigate.

4) EMAIL TEASERS-this is probably the second most common form. Pop-up ads, email enticements that tease you by saying stuff like "someone has emailed you, to read their email, please sign up".

THE PURPOSE IS SIMPLE......THEY WANT YOUR MONEY!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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baller1985

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yes, so dont ****ing pay for dating sites and just use myspace and facebook

how much more obvious can it be?
 
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