better to not call and just retry in person?

[big weezy]

i been thinking lately that cos my pick up isn't perfect i get into incidents where i'd only rate myself 6/10 in regards to the actual pick up attempt.. meaning that she prob is slightly interested/indifferent.

if i call i'm pretty sure she won't pick up, if i text she'll either respond uninterestedly or not respond at all.

given we live both in the same area and her local starbucks is the 1 down the road from mine, would i be better off just trying again in person to raise IL?

as in try to improve on my first impression.

if i dont call/text her she won't be apprehensive around me.. so if i see her in person we're on more neutral terms.

if i dont see her this weekend there then i'll prob just call next week. i know right now that her interest isn't really there, nor am i friendzoned so to speak.

 

[scorpio1138]

don't make ANY effort to contact her. no text, no call no nothing.

I've found that most women who have a genuine interest will definitely contact you within 4 weeks time at the latest, no matter how "busy" their life is. Most times it's within 2 weeks.

If she doesn't make contact within 5 weeks, consider it a finished situation and find another.

 

[big weezy]

i meant more to re-pick her up.. as in try to raise IL next time due to my flounderings the 1st time.

right now i know i didn't make enough of an impression for her to be into me.. but i have the benefit of living in the same area so undoubtedly should bump into her this weekend again.. if not, then yes i will call to set up the date as i cant wait 2 weeks to do that.

normally u wouldnt have another opportunity to try again in person but in this case i do, so i feel i should try?

 

[big weezy]

i meant more to re-pick her up.. as in try to raise IL next time due to my flounderings the 1st time.

right now i know i didn't make enough of an impression for her to be into me.. but i have the benefit of living in the same area so undoubtedly should bump into her this weekend again.. if not, then yes i will call to set up the date as i cant wait 2 weeks to do that.

normally u wouldnt have another opportunity to try again in person but in this case i do, so i feel i should try?

 

[scorpio1138]

she has your phone number right?

then follow what i said.