"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Better to call or not to call?

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619joe

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See basically when we get a number,we are inclined to follow up with the number and get in contact later to further are progress with the girl.

Lets say you have an encounter with a girl and it goes OK.Ok as in maybe a tiny bit of kino a laugh or two,it doesnt connect FULLY but then again she doesnt mind your presence and you in a way "did a satisfactory job".

When you get the number,do you feel that it would be best bet to

A)Not Call.You figure you probably dont have too much of a good shot and therefore dont want to waste time/get rejected.
B)Call.You take that shot no matter what the odds are and you decide that it either could go well or could end in nothing.

This isnt really happening to me exactly,but I just want to see what others think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Call dude, if it ****s up, whatever. There's plenty more. Just take it as a win/win situation. If you don't win the girl, you win the experience and sometimes that's much more important.
 
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I totally agree.

I just feel there are some people that are more inclined to do the first option...Which I think is stupid because even some of my friends dont wanna get a "rejection" streak started
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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