"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Better to call or not to call?

619joe

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See basically when we get a number,we are inclined to follow up with the number and get in contact later to further are progress with the girl.

Lets say you have an encounter with a girl and it goes OK.Ok as in maybe a tiny bit of kino a laugh or two,it doesnt connect FULLY but then again she doesnt mind your presence and you in a way "did a satisfactory job".

When you get the number,do you feel that it would be best bet to

A)Not Call.You figure you probably dont have too much of a good shot and therefore dont want to waste time/get rejected.
B)Call.You take that shot no matter what the odds are and you decide that it either could go well or could end in nothing.

This isnt really happening to me exactly,but I just want to see what others think.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Call dude, if it ****s up, whatever. There's plenty more. Just take it as a win/win situation. If you don't win the girl, you win the experience and sometimes that's much more important.
 

619joe

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I totally agree.

I just feel there are some people that are more inclined to do the first option...Which I think is stupid because even some of my friends dont wanna get a "rejection" streak started
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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