"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Better to call or not to call?

619joe

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See basically when we get a number,we are inclined to follow up with the number and get in contact later to further are progress with the girl.

Lets say you have an encounter with a girl and it goes OK.Ok as in maybe a tiny bit of kino a laugh or two,it doesnt connect FULLY but then again she doesnt mind your presence and you in a way "did a satisfactory job".

When you get the number,do you feel that it would be best bet to

A)Not Call.You figure you probably dont have too much of a good shot and therefore dont want to waste time/get rejected.
B)Call.You take that shot no matter what the odds are and you decide that it either could go well or could end in nothing.

This isnt really happening to me exactly,but I just want to see what others think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Call dude, if it ****s up, whatever. There's plenty more. Just take it as a win/win situation. If you don't win the girl, you win the experience and sometimes that's much more important.
 

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I totally agree.

I just feel there are some people that are more inclined to do the first option...Which I think is stupid because even some of my friends dont wanna get a "rejection" streak started
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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