trickynick
Master Don Juan
Maybe there is another way to measure a DJ's contribution to the board besides the number of posts. Any ideas?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Better title than "Master Don Juan?"
- Thread starter maknmovs
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lordclem*
Master Don Juan
i second this
How about if someone has to recommend you?
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"Some say I got a bad attitude,
But that don't change the way I feel about you,
And if you think this thought might bring me down,
look again 'cause I ain't wearin' no frown!"
-Ugly Kid Joe
lordclem*
Master Don Juan
a number of people recommend you,that should work
Hidden-Danjer
Master Don Juan
Well if we was using the latest version of this software then we could enable user ratings which allows people to vote on which guys give the best advice.
Everytime someone posts you get to see what their rating is (scale of 1 - 5). That way we could tell who people really listen to and who just talks lotsa BS... But I'm sure we have a pretty good idea of that anyways!
So that's my little useless point for today... As this is UBB version 5 and not 6 it's a bit of a bugger, but nevermind.
You'll just have to stick with your master don juans
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*Hidden-Danjer*
Yes, I am British... Yes, I am better than the rest of you!
Visit my website, tell me what you think?
RampantRabbit.com and GirlfriendProblems.com - With the right mindset you can have ANY girl you want!
Everytime someone posts you get to see what their rating is (scale of 1 - 5). That way we could tell who people really listen to and who just talks lotsa BS... But I'm sure we have a pretty good idea of that anyways!
So that's my little useless point for today... As this is UBB version 5 and not 6 it's a bit of a bugger, but nevermind.
You'll just have to stick with your master don juans
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*Hidden-Danjer*
Yes, I am British... Yes, I am better than the rest of you!
Visit my website, tell me what you think?
RampantRabbit.com and GirlfriendProblems.com - With the right mindset you can have ANY girl you want!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
trickynick
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer:
Well if we was using the latest version of this software then we could enable user ratings which allows people to vote on which guys give the best advice.
Everytime someone posts you get to see what their rating is (scale of 1 - 5). That way we could tell who people really listen to and who just talks lotsa BS... But I'm sure we have a pretty good idea of that anyways!
So that's my little useless point for today... As this is UBB version 5 and not 6 it's a bit of a bugger, but nevermind.
You'll just have to stick with your master don juans
So you're saying that upgrading the software is not an option? If that's true is there any other way to manage votes as to who gives the best advice and use that data to create some sort of ranking system?
Okay, I have an idea. Most Newbies have the same kinds of questions. Why not set up a Newbie Advice Collection of sorts? Set it up like the DJ Bible. List a question and make the question a link to a quality answer/solution to that particular problem. And list every possible typical Newbie question you can think of. The DJ Bible is a wealth of information, but most people have specific questions that they need answers to quickly along with the inspirational posts. Then the Newbies will have something to refer to that will be of immediate help that doesn't steer them in the wrong direction.