trickynick
Master Don Juan
Maybe there is another way to measure a DJ's contribution to the board besides the number of posts. Any ideas?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i second thisOriginally posted by Raoul:
Won't adding another title rank become as fruitless as Master Don Juan has become? MDJ used to MEAN something, such as this guy knows what he's talking about, therefore he posts a lot to share his advice. Now it's 90% whine posts, 10% replying to flames to said whine post.
Raoul
How about if someone has to recommend you?Originally posted by trickynick:
Maybe there is another way to measure a DJ's contribution to the board besides the number of posts. Any ideas?
a number of people recommend you,that should workOriginally posted by Ack:
How about if someone has to recommend you?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer:
Well if we was using the latest version of this software then we could enable user ratings which allows people to vote on which guys give the best advice.
Everytime someone posts you get to see what their rating is (scale of 1 - 5). That way we could tell who people really listen to and who just talks lotsa BS... But I'm sure we have a pretty good idea of that anyways!![]()
So that's my little useless point for today... As this is UBB version 5 and not 6 it's a bit of a bugger, but nevermind.
You'll just have to stick with your master don juans![]()