"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Betrayal

AbsoluteFreakinChump

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The best Revenge...

If that's all you did was tell her friend what she said about her, then that's good enough revenge.
I wouldn't do anything beyond that
as far as revenge goes.
I too was recently "betrayed" by someone I care very much for.
But I have decided that the best "revenge" is success. So I am working-out more,
adopting a more positive attitude,
talking to sevreal chicks etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vulpine

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Unless she betrayed you by giving you the clap and diverting your mutual funds, I'm pretty sure you posted in the wrong area.
 

NewMan

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It's a sign of weakness.

More on. Live well. That's all the revenge you will need.
 

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There is no point to revenge in the game of love - just move on.
 
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