Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Betrayal

AbsoluteFreakinChump

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The best Revenge...

If that's all you did was tell her friend what she said about her, then that's good enough revenge.
I wouldn't do anything beyond that
as far as revenge goes.
I too was recently "betrayed" by someone I care very much for.
But I have decided that the best "revenge" is success. So I am working-out more,
adopting a more positive attitude,
talking to sevreal chicks etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vulpine

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Unless she betrayed you by giving you the clap and diverting your mutual funds, I'm pretty sure you posted in the wrong area.
 

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It's a sign of weakness.

More on. Live well. That's all the revenge you will need.
 

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There is no point to revenge in the game of love - just move on.
 
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