"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Betrayal

AbsoluteFreakinChump

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The best Revenge...

If that's all you did was tell her friend what she said about her, then that's good enough revenge.
I wouldn't do anything beyond that
as far as revenge goes.
I too was recently "betrayed" by someone I care very much for.
But I have decided that the best "revenge" is success. So I am working-out more,
adopting a more positive attitude,
talking to sevreal chicks etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vulpine

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Unless she betrayed you by giving you the clap and diverting your mutual funds, I'm pretty sure you posted in the wrong area.
 

NewMan

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It's a sign of weakness.

More on. Live well. That's all the revenge you will need.
 

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There is no point to revenge in the game of love - just move on.
 
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