"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beta success stories, BS or real?

Paarth Shah

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So we've all heard the story. Girl tells us that her current boyfriend/husband use to be all over her, but she rejected him until he finally wore her down with affection and persistence.

So obviously this is counter-intuitive towards our principles and Im not saying I would trade places with these men because most of them end up being whipped and controlled by their women. However, Im just curious, how does this happen? Is the provider aspect of their hypergamy such that they eventually give into a beta who is continually persistent?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Yeah its possible but you can bet she has him wrapped around her pinky finger because she knows he is way more invested than she is
 

wifehunter

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watch Hollywood movies much?
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Logistics. Back when I was a total *****, I got some women. Most were eventually weirded out by me. But I still was able to snag one as a girlfriend I guess. As I got better with all this stuff, I just haven’t had the opportunity to apply it really. It’s due to things out of my control though. I was never able to set up a strong enough social circle to get to that point where I could meet a lot of women. Cold approaching doesn’t really work anymore since it’s 2018. And I hate having to make social media accounts just to compete with some fake ass dudes who are weaker than me. Whenever I deal with women irl in a consistent setting, then I always end up having them get at least somewhat attracted to me, even if they have kids and are married already lol. The problem is that most of the women (taken or single) tend to not be as hot as I would like them to be. But I can definitely get them, all women are the same really. They are just different variations of each other. If I do decide to LTR a chick, then with enough time, I can get to the top of her high score list with pretty much ANY woman. I just never do because of things that tend to be out of my control.
 
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