"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beta success stories, BS or real?

Paarth Shah

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So we've all heard the story. Girl tells us that her current boyfriend/husband use to be all over her, but she rejected him until he finally wore her down with affection and persistence.

So obviously this is counter-intuitive towards our principles and Im not saying I would trade places with these men because most of them end up being whipped and controlled by their women. However, Im just curious, how does this happen? Is the provider aspect of their hypergamy such that they eventually give into a beta who is continually persistent?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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Yeah its possible but you can bet she has him wrapped around her pinky finger because she knows he is way more invested than she is
 

wifehunter

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watch Hollywood movies much?
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Logistics. Back when I was a total *****, I got some women. Most were eventually weirded out by me. But I still was able to snag one as a girlfriend I guess. As I got better with all this stuff, I just haven’t had the opportunity to apply it really. It’s due to things out of my control though. I was never able to set up a strong enough social circle to get to that point where I could meet a lot of women. Cold approaching doesn’t really work anymore since it’s 2018. And I hate having to make social media accounts just to compete with some fake ass dudes who are weaker than me. Whenever I deal with women irl in a consistent setting, then I always end up having them get at least somewhat attracted to me, even if they have kids and are married already lol. The problem is that most of the women (taken or single) tend to not be as hot as I would like them to be. But I can definitely get them, all women are the same really. They are just different variations of each other. If I do decide to LTR a chick, then with enough time, I can get to the top of her high score list with pretty much ANY woman. I just never do because of things that tend to be out of my control.
 
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