jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
The way we grew up was different
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In a similar fashion, men have found ourselves having to sack up once again, after allowing ourselves to be emasculatedTo remember that oneitis is not a modern issue.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.The most beta song ever is "We belong together" by Mariah Carey. My niece used to listen to this song 24/7. At some point I became hooked through osmosis. There was a period where I got cucked almost every weekend because I kept listening to that song. I truely believe songs carry an energy and wavelength that affects your vibe.
If you dont believe me, have the song on repeat about 5 times, go out to the bars and clubs, and report back what happened.
Yeah, no one would accuse Peter Steele(PBUH) of being "a beta", yet he wrote the following:Third, not all songs that sound "blue pill" really are upon further inspection
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Achieving fame and fortune extremely young has it's drawbacks: Fellas like Mayer often stall out psychologically and intellectually, continue thinking and behaving as if they're in their late teens-early 20s, decades after the factFor example, I really like John Mayer; his style is unique.
But the lyrics are 80% about the theme of beta love and how a man is lost without this woman
So the theme of we belong together by Mariah Carey is that she is getting married to same rich guy but still has feelings for her simp lover who mopes around, looks sad, and acts emotional like a woman.The majority of popular songs from the 1960s-present express a blue pill ideology. The majority of males have a blue pill ideology and women do like to promote that idealized version of love that doesn't translate in the real world.
Many of these songs with blue pill ideology messages do sound good with the instrumentation or advanced sound effects depending on when they were released.
I mentioned this in a 2023 thread. At the time, I cited Ambrosia's "You're the Only Woman" as a song that could promote scarcity mentality. The title sounds beta and on the surface, it could be considered beta.
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The Beta Male Anthem!
The cucks here are the guys bringing their girlfriends to these concerts just so they can fantasize about Bret Michaels, etc. They're not really fantasizing about the Tal Bachmans of the world though. Back in the day, guys in hard rock bands like Poison, Motley Crue, and Bon Jovi banged a lot...www.sosuave.net
@BillyPilgrim and I had a good back-and-forth about this in the thread. @BillyPilgrim and I agree that the song is seductive.
As I re-read the lyrics in the moment, they aren't overly beta. One line is beta in "I know you're the only woman that I'm dreamin' of" but another line isn't that beta when it is said that the woman has the following feelings
"And you were so afraid
That I'd found someone new
But darlin', well, there's no need
For what we're goin' through"
If the woman has feelings that the man has found someone new after what appears to be a somewhat serious disagreement, she's into him and realizes that he has value to other women. That's not hardcore beta since that guy would be appealing to other women. A hardcore beta wouldn't be, but the average beta male of the late 1970s/early 1980s was more attractive to women than average betas of 2000-present.
The song was released in 1980 and the late 1970s/early 1980s were a different time in the mating environment.
I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.
How were you cucked by that song?
If you got a problem, don't care what it is
You need a hand, I can assure you this
I can help
I got two strong arms, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
Let me help
If your child needs a daddy, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.