"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beta songs

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As children and teenagers we took these songs as examples.
Then we discovered the mockery.
 

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To remember that oneitis is not a modern issue.
In a similar fashion, men have found ourselves having to sack up once again, after allowing ourselves to be emasculated

Since times immemorial
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The most beta song ever is "We belong together" by Mariah Carey. My niece used to listen to this song 24/7. At some point I became hooked through osmosis. There was a period where I got cucked almost every weekend because I kept listening to that song. I truely believe songs carry an energy and wavelength that affects your vibe.

If you dont believe me, have the song on repeat about 5 times, go out to the bars and clubs, and report back what happened.
 

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The majority of popular songs from the 1960s-present express a blue pill ideology. The majority of males have a blue pill ideology and women do like to promote that idealized version of love that doesn't translate in the real world.

Many of these songs with blue pill ideology messages do sound good with the instrumentation or advanced sound effects depending on when they were released.

I mentioned this in a 2023 thread. At the time, I cited Ambrosia's "You're the Only Woman" as a song that could promote scarcity mentality. The title sounds beta and on the surface, it could be considered beta.



@BillyPilgrim and I had a good back-and-forth about this in the thread. @BillyPilgrim and I agree that the song is seductive.

As I re-read the lyrics in the moment, they aren't overly beta. One line is beta in "I know you're the only woman that I'm dreamin' of" but another line isn't that beta when it is said that the woman has the following feelings

"And you were so afraid
That I'd found someone new
But darlin', well, there's no need
For what we're goin' through"


If the woman has feelings that the man has found someone new after what appears to be a somewhat serious disagreement, she's into him and realizes that he has value to other women. That's not hardcore beta since that guy would be appealing to other women. A hardcore beta wouldn't be, but the average beta male of the late 1970s/early 1980s was more attractive to women than average betas of 2000-present.

The song was released in 1980 and the late 1970s/early 1980s were a different time in the mating environment.

The most beta song ever is "We belong together" by Mariah Carey. My niece used to listen to this song 24/7. At some point I became hooked through osmosis. There was a period where I got cucked almost every weekend because I kept listening to that song. I truely believe songs carry an energy and wavelength that affects your vibe.

If you dont believe me, have the song on repeat about 5 times, go out to the bars and clubs, and report back what happened.
I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.

How were you cucked by that song?
 

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A couple of thoughts.

First, I don't see these songs as having ideology or "pills." Love and sex are timeless themes and appeal especially to adolescents but also to everyone. "Oh darling, telephone and tell me I'm your own" is from the ragtime era when society was supposedly full of alphas.

Second, most of the male artists who performed these songs blow anyone here out of the water when it comes to getting laid. If they've had a gold or platinum record, one of 'em might just be your daddy.

Third, not all songs that sound "blue pill" really are upon further inspection. Most people don't listen to the lyrics. Classic examples are "When A Man Loves A Woman" by Percy Sledge. Sounds like he's singing about love but he's singing about a guy getting whipped by the P and selling out. "Invisible Touch" by Genesis. Sounds like he's bewitched by some amazing woman but in fact she's manipulative and indifferent to his heartache. These are songs with indelible hooks...Blues Traveler proved that the hook is all that matters.

Now if I had to pick a cheesy "blue pill" song it would be:

 

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Third, not all songs that sound "blue pill" really are upon further inspection
Yeah, no one would accuse Peter Steele(PBUH) of being "a beta", yet he wrote the following:

"In her place one hundred candles burning
As salty sweat drips from her breast
Her hips move and I can feel what they're saying, swaying
They say the beast inside of me is gonna get ya, get ya, get
Black lipstick stains her glass of red wine
I am your servant, may I light your cigarette?
Those lips smooth, yeah I can feel what you're saying, praying
They say the beast inside of me's gonna get ya, get ya, get
I beg to serve, your wish is my law
Now close those eyes and let me love you to death
Shall I prove I mean what I'm saying, begging
I say the beast inside me is gonna get ya, get ya, get
Let me love you too
Let me love you to death
Hey am I good enough
For you?
Hey am I good enough
For you?
Am I?
Am I?
Am I good enough
For you?"

There are a number of ways to interpret all of this... Yeah, he COULD be endorsing self-emasculation. OR, he could be skewering the obsession so many men develop over a slice of poonany, based solely on how sexy she looks and moves
 

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Think about it for a moment.
These singers are famous, and sometimes they don't write the songs. Some are just actors in narratives.

Others, however, write and sing them.
For example, I really like John Mayer; his style is unique.

But the lyrics are 80% about the theme of beta love and how a man is lost without this woman.

What I'm trying to say is that most famous people are unaware of the pill, and yes, @Vanderdonck these man may have fked 10,000 women, but all from the wrong perspective.
And if women still stay with them, it's because they have the status quo, not because they really want it.
Look at Morata and his recent separations and reconciliations.
Do you think he knows about monkeybranching? Just look at him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For example, I really like John Mayer; his style is unique.

But the lyrics are 80% about the theme of beta love and how a man is lost without this woman
Achieving fame and fortune extremely young has it's drawbacks: Fellas like Mayer often stall out psychologically and intellectually, continue thinking and behaving as if they're in their late teens-early 20s, decades after the fact
 

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The majority of popular songs from the 1960s-present express a blue pill ideology. The majority of males have a blue pill ideology and women do like to promote that idealized version of love that doesn't translate in the real world.

Many of these songs with blue pill ideology messages do sound good with the instrumentation or advanced sound effects depending on when they were released.

I mentioned this in a 2023 thread. At the time, I cited Ambrosia's "You're the Only Woman" as a song that could promote scarcity mentality. The title sounds beta and on the surface, it could be considered beta.



@BillyPilgrim and I had a good back-and-forth about this in the thread. @BillyPilgrim and I agree that the song is seductive.

As I re-read the lyrics in the moment, they aren't overly beta. One line is beta in "I know you're the only woman that I'm dreamin' of" but another line isn't that beta when it is said that the woman has the following feelings

"And you were so afraid
That I'd found someone new
But darlin', well, there's no need
For what we're goin' through"


If the woman has feelings that the man has found someone new after what appears to be a somewhat serious disagreement, she's into him and realizes that he has value to other women. That's not hardcore beta since that guy would be appealing to other women. A hardcore beta wouldn't be, but the average beta male of the late 1970s/early 1980s was more attractive to women than average betas of 2000-present.

The song was released in 1980 and the late 1970s/early 1980s were a different time in the mating environment.



I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.

How were you cucked by that song?
So the theme of we belong together by Mariah Carey is that she is getting married to same rich guy but still has feelings for her simp lover who mopes around, looks sad, and acts emotional like a woman.

Howbi would get cuck would be a woman would be eyeing me, then some random doiche would approach her, she’d go home with him, while looking at me as if she had feelings for me, as if I was some sad puppy that deserves sympathy.

This scenario happened over and over again until i finally stopped listening to the song. If you want a song that manifests abundance, it would be “intentions” by Justin Bieber. For whatever reason this song always manifests abundance for me.
 

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If you got a problem, don't care what it is
You need a hand, I can assure you this
I can help
I got two strong arms, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
Let me help
If your child needs a daddy, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
 

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This song has a bit of one-itis and scarcity mentality to it.
 

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Beta songs...

Let me just say this: basically every song that ain't toxic rap = beta. I remember an Asian chick went viral saying she was turned off because dude drove correctly while pumping John Legend..

Okay. So everything, pop, r&B, classical music, house, rock became beta because a few toxic ho3s got put in a position of deciding what is beta and what isn't..??

But the pendulum swings once a man becomes one with HIMSELF. Once you are so solidly YOU, you can start to ( re) enjoy John Legend. These h0es ain't going nowhere bro..father time aka DAS WALL is after them like the scrolling screen in those old Mario games.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento
Muta d'accento, e di pensiero
Sempre un amabile, leggiadro viso
In pianto o in riso, è menzognero
La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento
Muta d'accento, e di pensier
E di pensier, e di pensier
È sempre misero, chi a lei s'affida
Chi le confida mal cauto il core
Pur mai non sentesi felice appieno
Chi su quel seno non liba amore


Beautiful lyrics
 
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